Ready to Love Season 3 Episode 11 Unfinished Business (June 18, 2021) Full Episode 1080HD

Ready to Love Season 3 Episode 11 Unfinished Business (June 18, 2021) Full Episode 1080HD

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[Music] previously on ready to love tomorrow i am sending you to a beautiful ranch getaway i have a feeling some things are going to get exposed i'm looking for a made up mind so i'm a contrary to that because i don't have a mate of mine oh i know you don't so it does kind of put me in like a little awkward situation because aj and jason i like both of them i'm feeling i'm feeling you too i completely forgot about aj and kyra to be honest with you was kyle your number one you was willing to throw me away how am i supposed to feel after that it was very important for me to fix it with venetia because she's the one that matters i am sorry about that i should have told you apologies we decided at this time that you are not ready to love understanding that i kissed amber yesterday now i feel like i just got played cause to be my friend you went out on a date with him and didn't kiss him i feel betrayed by you so now i'm looking at you like a judas i know it took me some time to get to the place that you wanted me to be but now i'm ready i'm ready i feel betrayed by you as my sister as my sister in christ when i told you everything i don't talk to anybody else in this group like i talk to you so now i feel like i can't trust you ron going on a date with amber and the kids that right there was a blow to my heart but what hurt me the most is that this being my friend and knowing what i was going through she did not tell me is that right all right hold on y'all kissed what i was like whoa wait a minute that's not the move that's not cool it was a gut punch you know hearing that you know i was like we got to talk about this more hold on i would never kiss kg out of respect for you i just i wouldn't do it we have all done stuff oh it's different when my heart was poured out to you you know the story in the background concerning him and you still go do that but let me explain but explain because i'm giving you this moment give me that this is where this passion comes and i understand messed up to me i understand that okay for one it was not a date i took my friend out because he was getting deployed ryan said i got this place i'd get y'all getting free it wasn't like a set up day ron and i barely even talked he kissed me we kissed whatever i can't i can't wrap my mind it's like that's the girl code yo do y'all not understand what y'all not telling us no i don't coming into something but i definitely understand that don't get me wrong i understand the perspective to be honest i wanted to tell you but i knew that the real reason that you did not want to that you were conflicted with ron was because of their prayer it looks bad and i understand your frustration with that but you were going to make a decision off of something that happened that night that meant nothing i would not call that a day i went to a place with my friends yes ron did kiss me and i permitted that to happen but it didn't spark anything nothing changed it wasn't that big of a deal but i should have started off with this i apologize to you ron did not fully tell you the truth however i hope i hold myself accountable for not telling you at that appropriate time i apologize honestly it's cool you ain't got to explain it to me no more now i know ron's true character and i appreciate and i accept your apologies i'll say this amber took it like a woman she explained herself and all i could do was respect the fact that she took accountability and she did apologize to me and so we're cool right now you know what i'm saying i just basically told you better never happened again how about we change get into the jacuzzi i'm getting in that hot water baby y'all want to choose our rooms first where the room's at you better go find one i got it [Music] you're rooming with me yes oh oh baby why you close that door girl after the drama i'm really trying to figure out where i am with alexis at this point i'm her only connection that's here so i have to get more effort in talking and communicating with her but i still want to spend time with kyra and i don't know how alexis is going to take that [Music] men are visual so i just thought you know let me give a little eye candy something to look at jason has been feeling liz and i have to prove a point so [Music] i would what i wore jason he looked good i really did not notice kyra and that's the god on his troop that was your shower child was hit why you sneaked off in there i should i yeah what's going on what's up chocolate drip i'm trying to figure out what's going on between me kyra and aj folks better wash your hands in that water you're telling me you feel me but i'm still neck to neck with cairo and so i wanted him to get as much time with kyra to really be clear on what he wanted oh man how that water filled feels great come on from my perspective when a woman doesn't trust you then there ain't no peace because she's constantly bringing up something or she's questioning and then it's making me stop it just comes to love language interacting with each other having an understanding this is just a suck situation dating two women at the same time i'm also a little conflicted because kyra is still not really opening up to me about feelings in her direction which is why i'm not trying to push the issue but again we're operating on limited time here what about cute power like providing mentality like knowing that he's got that a lot of women aren't able to allow a man to be there this trip i get an opportunity to see how do the women present themselves to the men and listening to jason have all the same reservations i'm definitely not letting this hot tub go to waste i'm guarded i'm not gonna lie to you yes you are but this experience has taught me how to be vulnerable well i know one thing after this things will change i don't feel like i've been guarding with you though for you to be like [Applause] there's times i feel but like we're gonna have that conversation after the wrong kiss situation i felt the need to express to chris i apologize this is really what happened you know he hasn't wavered at all through the process but i can tell that affected him a lot like he could definitely not want to talk to me after this how you feeling i felt fine they was getting at you i know yeah but i'm a tough cookie you keep showing me i'm shocked because you've been telling me everything and that's what i was thinking i was like we talk about everything but at the end of the day who are you with i just wanted to kind of get an assessment of what i thought ron i am feeling lost for words about the kids with ron i just didn't see it coming and i need to know that this was just a one-off and how she feels about me so yeah so um [Music] he kissed me in front of his friends and i didn't really just want to embarrass him like at first i was going to tell you like we're human we make mistakes and so that was my bad i'm saying it's okay making a mistake any mistake and apologizing for it i mean i'm always going to be honest that's just who i am i'm sorry yeah i actually do feel closer to amber after how she handled herself like i'm going to make mistakes too you know so the good and what no bad um i'm happy for it all and here we are at the end of the day we forget like the main thing are the connections right i felt everything that you were saying like you give the most honest articulate answers and i don't i hate using that word because i know that that's what they say about us but like that felt amazing i'm glad that chris accept my apology he's just secure about himself secure about me because you know i can be a little wild i can do a little stuff so we're clear and we're moving forward you catch around saturday night do i get a kiss on a monday night not on a monday night [Music] what about you aj what do you look for in the partnership i heard what you were saying but somebody got a year that's the whole idea i was telling joelle that i don't understand aj carter's relationship just my observation from what i could see tyra spent majority of her time talking to jason and with aj a bunch of conflict it made me feel like okay new mercies new grace whoo now we have a better chance of hanging out you see what you need to see yeah this is what i'm hoping for but at the same time i was looking to see what he was going to do because i don't like to fight for something that's not fighting for me you okay over there i just it's just too much i would be a liar if i sit here right now say i don't feel no type of way [Music] good morning oh wow good morning queen okay get out of the kitchen with that yeah okay bye honey you're in the way what's up man thank you that's tea the next morning i'm feeling very good about my night with joelle i decided to share a room with him it's like a mixture of tea and coffee maybe we slept well y'all won't know something happening ain't nothing happening you dig ain't nothing happen something could have happened and i enjoyed the cut that let me know one thing i can lay next to this baby that's how you feel about the events last night just with everything what did you learn about me why it wasn't saying something i learned about you i was learning more about others but it went good though i think a lot of things uh were revealed that needed to be revealed but overall i think it was a good experience i think so too you know i don't know i learned that you do know how to apologize when you're wrong and at least like you you you make things right rather than because we could've went the rest of the night and i spoke to each other yeah but i was glad when you did and it got us back where we're supposed to be yeah you know mm-hmm but one of the reasons why i wanted to go ahead and squash this thing with vanessa is because the amount of time we had i didn't want to waste it when we couldn't enjoy each other and hopefully you dig continue to build some positive vibes moving forward don't do it not much you're real don't do do nothing else next time you're going in the doghouse you're what the heck i would be a dog from putting me in the dog out you know yeah you gonna be gonna build two of them things you're gonna be in there for some day what we got here chef hats y'all are doing the most right now we ain't getting no hats yeah i need nothing we ain't needing them i don't have no hair ugh that's how it is we ain't needing them because real chefs know where the hat oh aj ain't saying nothing i figured if i'm talking to them i'm distracting them from doing what they doing i need i need this to come out fast yeah when it comes to cairo i always feel like that's the person that you have on your team where it's more of a give and take do we have any peppers like i get you together i got you together no no no i mean green peppers like fresh peppers oh i know i need a woman with a certain caliber of assertiveness i think that kyra does that or is willing to do that and i really really appreciate that you got me wanting to go ahead and jump in we don't need no help still trying to see what he cooked though what i can cook kg made some salad uh halibut uh salmon it was steak though so i'm gonna be like hold on slide to the side and let me cook these faux steaks real fast although my connection with aj is growing we still have some work to do but i think that we really are enjoying each other and i really like sincerely feel that our guard is like coming down so so much and it feels good he got a third of a cup thank you yesterday was good but it was it was a lot i came in i personally came in heavy you know i think you did good but i know that today is going to be great it's going to be good i ain't gonna lie yesterday though for me yeah yeah you was lovely honey because you just horseback riding with your girl there with your purse i mean it was really beautiful yeah did y'all kiss though um yo that face telling me oh y'all got a lot of kisses going on yeah we did at this point i'm very secure in me and jason's connection the fact that this man has pursued me relentlessly has also helped in me being able to say you know what i'm going to go to distance so i am just really basking in this whole moment so your relationship is your connection your father is getting stronger oh god i'm killing him liz and i had the opportunity to talk about our connections she and jason they are definitely a perfect match but now i'm thinking about me and what alexis fly needs that means i have to compete against kyra for aj i see you in aj's chemistry the thing about aj and i's relationship is very peaceful we don't have a lot of conflict but i think he's just been very torn it's elimination week and alexis fly is not a quitter i like to win so my focus at this moment is on aj and how we can work it out i'm praying for you too thank you i need that [Music] do you even know how to play no no no i'm out i'm talking about me i'm gone yesterday me and kyrie spent some time with each other by the pool side but because of the reservedness i would say with her she hasn't told me how she wants me to move forward as far as my pursuit for her so i set up a date playing tennis and i'm hoping that this would be a great opportunity to get some feedback from kyra you ready just hit it down at an angle try to get it over i know i got to get over the next look i get judged as this like pretty girl that people don't really know that i have a strong athletic and competitive side so it's about to go down [Music] oh okay but clearly i suck at tennis and i need to take a tennis lesson honey oh bad one [Music] yo if you mess this up you got to sound the sexiest man in the world he gotcha good hit come on with it maybe i'm a little stronger than i thought uh that ain't what i was looking for though oh jason yes sweetheart give me a second oh thank you here you go thank you i'm determined so you have some questions i have some questions let's have a talk during this trip with jason i've been very frustrated with our connection it was kind of like he was just focused on liz and left me out in the cold i'm really not sure of where we stand so i am hoping that i can get some clarity okay so after y'all's last meal deliberation i felt like your energy towards me shifted then it's like okay liz is the focus and then i'm going to talk to her when i get with her so are you not that solid with me [Music] at this point i opened up with you i opened up with her but the difference between you two is she told me exactly the direction that she wants to take things i don't know with you guys it's literally like this from the beginning i have told you that i want to pursue you that i want to date you that i want to see where we can go i have not faltered or changed any of that so before we continue anything is who do you want [Music] so just like you're still figuring out you don't know i don't know aj and i have talks and we're trying to figure out what that conflict was and so we were seeing if there was any potential resolution there like this experience is part of the process which i needed to see i needed to see how you acted you know with most people being around i want to see how aj acts and i think it's fair to go through the entire process before making a decision what it's confusing to me because with aj they get into arguments all the time and it's not about comparing but it's just like are you really evaluating the men are you really evaluating yourself i want us to continue to grow our relationship and i feel like i was communicating that um well by this time you should have an idea who you want when i was asked who i would leave with i said jason and i told you that did i not tell you that yeah but you're saying like surface stuff two we've been pursuing each other since day one like come on after all the things that we've said that we've talked about to say that i've been surfaced with him that was like a slap in the face i talked to you about what do you want in a wife what do you need in a partner the only thing that i have not said to you is jason you are the one and only person i'm interested in what i'm saying to you is we reached a certain point now we need to either cross that threshold and take it to that other stage or we need to define where we are really at because you know what you really feel right now so i'm asking you what is it just say okay jason i'm ready say that it's just so many different emotions and so many different frustrations this is like just becoming a head case i'm at a point where i don't know how to proceed i'm a soldier on the battlefield waiting on my cotton what you want me to do [Music] whoa this is crazy it's a little high high i haven't had the opportunity to go in the tower i thought it would be a good way to have a conversation with lexus the last conversation that we had was was kind of rocky so i kind of wanted to see where she's at today beautiful yeah this is nice right here i can't look down you can't look down yeah vertigo yeah this is nice could you live out here i don't know if i could live out here but i could definitely vacation and take like a month off and i need to get away i like the hustle maybe a mother if i can get a month if you work for yourself you want to do that three days i'm ready to go home like a hot weekend i'm good most places i'm glad we're up here because i wanted to first apologize to you because you know coming here yesterday um i was really heavy i had a lot of things on my mind that nobody here knew about i definitely didn't know about a lot of that and so once i was able to express myself and get it out um then the weight lifted what you're just lucky that i don't just fly off the handle you know what i'm saying i'm lucky yeah but that's one thing that i love about you i've told you this before that you know i be wanting to come in wanting to express my high emotions to you and you just you know you bring me down you know what i'm saying and you don't get defensive it makes me respect you more and it makes me want to be more caring towards you because that's something that i need that you give to me i appreciate that because i'm not like that i haven't been that way all the time but i think it's not all me the way that you bring me things and the way that you tell me about stuff isn't hard with me and alexis i feel like she understands where i'm coming from and i can acknowledge where she is as well i know she feels like she tries to come at me guns blazing all the time but i'm glad that i'm able to calm her down and to just relax once the pressure was released and i was able to get out i was good okay and then i was back balance and center but i want to stay in that place sure and one thing i feel like we do very well together is there's peace between us i feel like um it's not a lot of drama no it's not and i don't want that not to be talking about anybody else because this is our moment my concern for you is for you not to yoke up with somebody that is going to cause you to continue on in dysfunction instead of the thing that you really need that will help change you and help move you out of that man i think everybody having the battle between what they want versus what they need yeah but i just want to honestly ask you you know where your heart is right now this was my what i assumed my last opportunity to see again where he was based off of that night in cairo's focus on jason i was hoping that maybe he was leaning more towards me i think that a lot of times what you need ain't necessarily as exciting like one being exciting versus one being safe safe is you yeah like in them and that's something that you kind of hit the nail on the head he was just like what it is that you're used to doing versus what you should be doing absolutely to actually you know make some progress you've shown me like a lot of that and those qualities in there so i'm really appreciative of that i'm appreciative of you that's sweet i'm glad to hear that i enjoyed every moment with aj but i still did not feel secure in his answer to be getting so close to the end of the process and having chosen someone who still don't know what he wants to do it was very disappointing to me i'm glad that we had an opportunity to get you know saying this level of understanding and before your hat you know i'm saying flies away that would be terrible are we good i'm not always in the hood that all i'm getting me and alexis have been working through things and i think that we're in a good space now but the only thing that i'm thinking about is i have two women here and i don't know which one really supersedes the other at this point so i'm definitely torn and worried about what that's going to mean for me moving [Music] forward [Music] i feel like every time we meet up it's solidifying what we already hear absolutely and that's what i like progression you know me too so me too aj don't make the shock [Music] [Applause] [Music] i like that hat he got on what we got here just see timing coming down the doggone field giddy up giddy up yeehaw well i said god dang that joke with that no he's smoother than the [ __ ] you think i'm saying surprise surprise i call myself cowboy tommy today that's a big horse right there man that's titan let's go inside let's go talk let's go i felt all of us were like just nervous you know the men have their power this week so always like oh lord who's going home today i want to hear everything see when you get to breathing like that tommy you know what i'm saying you all right i'm gonna let you slide downstairs i'm gonna i'm gonna talk to him hey get some heavy sized feet oh yeah i'll go ahead and get him out here quick yes sir down to the nitty-gritty boy yeah how's the last 36 hours been eye opening and yeah yeah kyra we had a date today i felt like i was able to get what i finally needed from her which was her direction she needs to go through the whole process to the end to make her decision and i told her i respect that but by this time you should know something at the same time i got this other lady liz she's telling me we're opening up more each week she's been growing on me she's been consistent i'm like man wait hold on but nobody gives you instructions on how to pursue someone okay i think all men need to know the expectations yeah of what your woman wants so when one lady tells you mm-hmm this is it for me this is what i want to do and then one tells you i need to ride it to the end to see what i'm gonna do yeah how do you make a decision cause you're gonna have to make one it's tight it's tight now here we are all eyes is on jason kyra was pulling at my heart so hard liz was pulling at my heart so hard too but i knew that i had to make that decision if you got to leave right now and roll back to houston who would it be with if you got to leave right now and roll back to houston who would it be with body and clyde ride it out my dad taught me that love is not confusing it should be simple connection yeah um vibes yeah and so for that i'm gonna choose liz because she's been there for me i literally processed everything that i probably came from day one all the way up into that point with both women sounded like that was hard it was hard the attraction was there the connection was there she gave me something to pursue and my gut in my heart told me liz all right we'll talk yeah yeah yeah appreciate it yeah what's up fellas what's going on good come down here to see y'all yeah look at y'all look at y'all now we're at the time where you got to start locking it in and so i'm feeling a little apprehensive y'all talked to me had a resort been the rant the last 36 hours it's been great for me i mean amber is as thorough as they come honest genuine smart loving no drama no there was a little drama that happened during the truth of the day let's talk about it you know alexis felt a little betrayed by amber for her not sharing some information that she found out about ron had you known that information no but she was like i did kiss him i was like oh okay she was like it meant nothing let me ask this though are you okay hearing a woman that you're interested in kissing another guy in that moment there was a it was a little like oh like a little gut punch yeah a little one but after talking like and i got over it everything is good yes my feelings about the kids would ron that was a concern but i get it it's early on if we're 18 months down the line and there's no mention then you know i might raise a you know that's going to raise a red flag just remember communication is the key and be truthful transparent even if it's bad news just bring it and i believe that's why amber and i have been so solid because i'd rather you slap me with the truth than kiss me with a lot there you go i heard you had an eventful overnight oh man you know you get hit with them questions you know what i'm saying right right well i ain't telling that baby venetia something about what i said about kyrie you know so she felt like our connection has been breached and we went back and forth with that she wanted me to hear her piece she understood what i was saying she accepted my apology genuinely and the whole evening we had a good evening but but when it was going down oh it was rough it was rough what do you feel like you need if you feel like kyra can give you what you need girl you need to pursue kyra what's wrong with me being honest at that time what's wrong with you being honest afterwards and telling me i ain't never seen a girl like that that was inside we heard him outside so what what do you think it sits now even in the heat all that we was able to come to it was like it comes to a meeting of mines that's very important to me you know what i learned the quicker you let things out yeah the more pain you you know you don't have to go through right yeah you know but when you when you stretch it man three days went by four days went bad and guess what it's a monster money right now yeah yeah like you met that monster it's been two years since i lost my wife and it's just me and my eight-year-old twin as they age i can't afford to keep trying so the least i could do is make sure the person i decide to be with is serious sounds like this trip has been the clarity that you needed yeah absolutely oh yeah yeah ain't no ain't no seesaw with that little tool ain't nothing no no no no so it's definitely miss bernice yes it's a depth and it is definitely miss amp yes indeed all right that's what i needed to hear don't bring no more tim baby we locked and loaded baby bam this is where is it i thought that this trip would kind of give me a more clear understanding of which way i was going to go i was able to spend time with alexis time with cairo i know someone has to leave i know men have the power in this but i don't know which way i'm a vote hey jay you all right it's still just really tough man it's gonna happen and you start playing tug-of-war with yourself well kyra has always been this struggle yeah with communication okay when we was in the hot tub kyra and jason was having a conversation i was listening to jason have all his reservations but i was able to listen to what her responses was man i heard him different man but then at the same time as you know alexis yeah and we had a conversation here she was inconsistent yeah she had a hard choice about ron and i look at it and say okay you in this very same position that i'm in right now where you had to make a hard choice and i i don't know if i could do it right now man you're gonna do it right now though hey you know we're we're at that point you know the ultimate question i'm gonna ask you a bit but if you had to leave out here tonight and roll back to houston who would you be rolling with man i i i wouldn't want to see either of them going man copper alexis here's what i think what was the purpose of this trip to get you clarity right it's not about who's gonna feel this way who's gonna feel that way your decision is about how aj feels what lights aj up and be like yeah they got my girl which one of these people do you think you have that longevity with and there has to be one that does it more than the other this is this is really tough man it's really tough so i'll tell you what and i know it's tough and i know you want to make a good solid decision sure from your heart i'm gonna let you think about it some more because you got you're gonna have to make a decision and your decision is about how aj feels it's got to come from you all right this really was one of the toughest decisions that i've ever had to make not just in this process or in this journey but in life it's a struggle man you'll make the right decision you're gonna make what's right for you all right okay all right right now these are people's real feelings and real emotions so truly i don't know which way i'm gonna go at this point [Music] everyone else already had their picks and i'm still needing to make a decision i at least thought that cairo would be okay and safe but jason didn't choose her and so i want them just ask her a few questions if she wasn't in the space where she could truly pick me she may be going home hey hey young lady how are you oh i like those boots thank you how are you doing well how about you i'm going into this date with aj i am anxious but when i see him all that goes out the window like i'm excited to see him it's been an interesting you know couple of days i'm glad i get to spend some little time with you before we get up out of here like the fireplace okay do a little something i'm hoping that aj is patient enough to allow me to flourish in my own way and move forward in a way that works for kyra not just for this experience but as we move forward as a couple before we left i did want to actually do some stargazing so not a single not a single stop tonight but still just being out here looking up at the sky yeah intimate for me oh no that's it you go first oh no i was just saying how are you feeling about you know what's saying the whole trip my flight has brought us closer together i feel like you've been able to see me outside of just around you helping you break down some of your guards that you had with me and vice versa just giving us a true chance yeah it definitely brought us closer together for sure not only in the hot tub but just being able to be around each other and me getting to hear jason have some of the same apprehensions and challenges for me in our space however that they're coming from two different places i get it same concern though mm-hmm very valid very very valid like how you handle it was different and i got to see that too but just being a pure observer is definitely valuable to me you know so where are you at though i know i've asked you this question several times where are you i asked her just flat out i felt like with all of the stuff that we had been through throughout this whole journey i want to be able to know that you're really picking and choosing me to be very honest um the conversation that i had with jason today i was kind of like okay it did push me in a different direction but was i ready all of a sudden to just blend up nope okay i'm done with that i'm going in this direction no i wasn't ready to flip my mind like that so i definitely have to some things to do i think that you're an amazing woman oh thank you and you're gorgeous thank you you're not too shabby yourself [ __ ] no i appreciate you giving me a second chance an opportunity to you know make amends but in this i ask you these questions for a reason i've been looking for some level of reassurance because i've been putting in this effort i understand that i haven't provided you with total reassurance yet but do you feel like that assurance has changed at all over the time um man be honest i think you've been finished traveling there's only four guys left it's only going to be three couples and this decision this week the power's been on the guys and it came down to basically me mm-hmm this is your last day here on this process you're not ready love okay it hit my gut because i was finally coming to the place where i was wanting to be like it's aj but at the end of the day i was not ready to change my heart within a split second decision this is really tough i mean we sat there still holding hands so i could feel that he wasn't ready to stay by and i wasn't ready to say bye to him either hold my hand back i don't want it to be the last time i hold it do you want to be here with me next time on ready to love jason has made his choice obviously i'm not sure about mine i think that me and you will be in each other's lives for a long time and i'm smiling because i'm thinking oh man he about to say girl you're the one this week i am sending you on your last one-on-one date i have some unfinished business with jason jason and i had a real strong connection does that connection go away overnight no it doesn't because it was genuine okay what's happening we don't have to be married because i'm not even having sex right now like ever in life i mean yeah once i get married and we you what what am i doing that is so bad i felt like i was nothing but 100 with you what do you want you

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