Love & Marriage: Huntsville Season 2 Episode 20 Blaque in Business! - HD 1080p (Apr 03, 2021) S02E20

Love & Marriage: Huntsville Season 2 Episode 20 Blaque in Business! - HD 1080p (Apr 03, 2021) S02E20

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previously on love and marriage huntsville i wanted to destroy your mess first of all i can't destroy you try no i didn't trust nobody got time for day i think that you and teacher need a second chance you should come out to black if you're having a soft opening is there anything that you get excited about i don't have a passion for anything yet so how's the hiring processes going to go i want to hire the general manager first yeah i'm really thinking about jalen but does he have experience he's going to make mistakes but in the end i think he's the right person for the job because he cares i'm ready and i understand it's not like a gift no i know i'm gonna have to work for it i got i got the right one i got the right one all right all right i've got the other rumors online the other girl that's pregnant is she pregnant with your kid i would say so this other person i'm talking to she satisfying me you wouldn't get calm and asked for a divorce a long time ago so don't act like that's the [Music] now this is the first time that they will do a photo shoot without their dad you okay son i bet you gonna look so handsome well this is really africa african themed you look like a young prince oh you weren't kissing i'm gonna go be the queen okay i'm the queen first of all i thought i was the boss and that's you but she was not in the chair he was over there so go back where he was let me get back in my spot or i will be so mad at you and kick you out pick me up if you want to still not gonna get up i know what to do because i'm the queen if i wasn't done with martel before the intervention at the fletchers i'm surely done with him now and what better way to move forward with my new life as a single mom than to have an amazing photo shoot with my children so that i can put these photos around my home displaying and showing this new beginning i mean a little bit for me [Music] can i take a break brian and see destiny okay all right guys they'll sit down we can play no you can sit down i'm so happy that destiny was able to stop by the shoot today she's just really been there and so supportive of me and the kids throughout this entire process which means so much to me considering that she has no martell longer well i love this photo shoot and you embracing your independence oh absolutely first photo shoot with just myself and the kids and i don't really want pictures of me and martel around the house girl i have released him for the pickets speaking of i checked him a little bit the other day were you sorry at the fletchers this joker is sitting there talking about well if mel had been taking care of me this is what doesn't make any sense to me you say to even to me that you want your family you want your wife back but then you say things like that don't get me wrong i'm also sensitive to the fact that i understand you are losing a lot you're losing your entire normal your family i get that i told them i said get on your knees pray get into some therapy but i want you to know my tail you're gonna be okay and at the end of the day you have to um be okay with the decisions that you made in the outcome that caused it absolutely i think martel just went a long time thinking there aren't consequences for his actions now he's got a consequence that he can't hide you got a whole baby on the way there's no hiding of that well eventually they're gonna have to meet their um half-brothers and sisters i don't have anything to say about that look slow down we ain't gonna jump that far into the future i am focused right now on living in the now not the past not the future but the present so that's where i am i don't want any drama i don't want any bs that's too much it's way too much and then people be wondering why i feel good still because i'm leaving so much we have to just blow up with melody myself i'm really looking for some type of guidance i don't want to go into the sunken place it hurts a lot you know when i think about my children and and my wife and how it used to be dr francis martell hey brother long time long time man i need some type of relatability um to guide me through this and that's what i'm looking at dr francis for okay well listen it's been a while you have picked up the phone a couple of times left a message for me i called you back and you never follow through yeah cause you'd be tearing me up now sessions you know i feel like yeah i mean well i guess i should be more open and willing to just allow things just to flow out it's like it's just hard just to to open up to you about just everything my life but i gotta realize that that's why you're here okay that's why i'm here okay all right enough for me to open up it's okay um well you know the this entire divorce thing um it's you know the the separation being in different households um my family has been you know ripped apart i'm at the lowest i feel that i mean i can go i'm at ground level like i'm feel like i'm broken i have my children still but considering everything that i had it feel like i'm i have nothing i cry now you know you do know it's okay for men to cry right dr francis wants what's best for me i feel that it's necessary for me to open up to dr francis about any situation i guess the space that melanie that that we're in right now is just so much tension okay she probably wasn't getting everything she needed from me okay and i wasn't getting what i needed from her um so it started to to pull us apart right so here's what it is what did you want in your marriage but you didn't have i think i needed i i wanted um more attention a little bit more affection for my wife okay at times she stopped complimenting me um i still remember that because i used to ask like i mean like what you think she slowed down with the sex did she have the ability to give you what you wanted yeah okay if you're saying listen she had the ability to give it to me but she didn't give it to me what you're really saying is that she withheld it from you right that's accurate you still had a need to to satisfy that part of yourself so what'd you do you took an alternate way to satisfy that need yeah but it doesn't mean that because she withheld it that you had to satisfy it the way you did it it was constant chaos but i enjoyed it and she knew you were doing that yeah then my question is why would she hate your acting out but had what what you wanted but wouldn't give it to you yeah i guess i'd need to ask her that yeah because that'd be a great question for her to ask hey listen this man likes oranges you're withholding his oranges and so you go outside and pick something oranges yeah but as time progressed i start to love the oranges too and that's the whole thing what what what everybody don't seem to get now you know with her knowing about those oranges her trying to show me that her oranges are better now oh so so now it's i stopped picking these oranges now went back to my home oranges and i'm still thinking about these other oranges that i've been picking because it was really good you're sweet yeah and now everybody is like why are you still picking those oranges i mean i've been picking those oranges for so long right it's kind of hard for me to stop picking these oranges now and go back to these oranges you know if i could go back honestly i don't know what i would have done differently i really don't i would definitely say i got caught up being loyal to two women at the same time my wife told me i need to choose and i told her i can't and i guess to to this day this is why i'm in the situation i'm in now that part of you that the orange is satisfied is it still alive and well it is how are you satisfying that part of yourself my my needs are being met your needs are being met yeah what if this woman when she got pregnant i mean i think anybody know that if you have sex you definitely can get someone pregnant i'm 38 years old i'm a grown man and um you know like with all my children i take good care of them so man you know what man you you should get a job in washington as a politician you know i ask you you know so you're making sure i just came to you doctor i called you to come here because i want to get some help i don't want to you ain't nothing you ask the question yet man it's it's she's already pregnant she's pregnant so yeah well she's pregnant right this baby doesn't make you a bad guy so don't let nobody tell you that you know you're some kind of a thug because you're 38 and you got another woman pregnant that's not the issue see a lot of people they just oh man he's here man he's just he's just holding around town right now and i hate it i need to make sure you don't leave your thinking oh man i got not a baby on the way what i'm doing no no no no no there is a difference between who you are and what you do yeah it is now your divine responsibility to make sure that all of those children get the best that they can in life all right great you agree with that i do this is what i want to know from you what are you willing to do to make sure that one day these children they're going to boast about you because they're making the difference between what you do and who you are dr francis he's letting me know that what we're going through as a family is going to pass i do want my children to be proud of proud of their father and i just hope that they can appreciate the person that i am coming up on love in marriage huntsville [Music] how's the baby how you been feeling i'm okay if if the child is mine you know okay this is your child but what do you want a dna test well yeah i can't even believe this is a question that may be an excuse that works for you but you deal with several of them you're wondering it doesn't work for me no i'm not a hoe how dare you say that you know you're the one that this marriage up and you're trying to call me a whole you ain't [Music] that looks nice like the box yeah with the cigars and we got the lighter it's so exciting to finally be at this moment where we get a chance to have all of our close friends and family around and really just celebrate now today is like a dream come true yeah we got to figure out the the right font so that we get the bees matching and what the same thing is no the beans and uh q it's a soft opening um at black with marcel and tisha of course i'm going to support them regardless of male goals or not but every time i see her and we're not together i mean it hurts though i don't want that you know so yeah [Music] hey what's up hey how's the baby how you how you've been feeling i'm okay a little tired yeah i'm okay you know i had my little session dr francis you know he kind of like counsels me um through some things and you know i'll just straight up honest about everything when it comes to our situation i mean he left me in a in a good space i didn't call you ask another peasant just making sure you never know what you no you do know he made me feel a lot better about the situation you know about me owning this situation me just knowing that i'm gonna say if if if the child is mine you know okay this is your child we both know this but what do you want a dna test like is it it seems like that's for you hitting it well yeah i mean i want a dna test i mean i'm not saying that it ain't mine i'm not saying anything like that i just want to make sure like a hundred percent i'm a thousand percent sure so okay um like what's this what's the soonest that we could have it though oh i can't even believe this is the question i can't even believe no i mean i mean really i didn't i didn't ask i didn't ask the question you you kind of like brought it up okay yeah i mean there's nothing wrong with that well over the years she has shown a great deal of loyalty when it comes to me but we're not together 24 7. so i want to know for a fact that he or she is mine and if he or she is mine i'm gonna take full responsibility and i'm gonna treat the child just like i treat my other children um so i know you know that i'm difficult to take care of our child you know um no matter what yeah you've always been good to me yeah i guess i'll call you after marco's uh soft opening call me later all right bye man it looks good in here man i'm glad you came out no no plus one he'll have a plus yeah i got nobody waiting in the car yeah yeah you probably got the kids with you big fat mariah martel's mom and wanda they think it's thieves now no they're not yes they are oh they have no all the time when they get here i love martell monks because she's the same no matter what hey baby how you doing no matter what yeah yeah yeah yeah right yeah it's funny no i apparently i can't have you all soon in the same room together no i'm cool and also too um since we here well i guess i was being disrespectful so you know regardless of what like our moms would do i still do need to understand that it is like your mom though you know what i'm saying so i do apologize um i'm tired of that tale i'm always apologizing i appreciate it man i'm liking this new martell i mean i think this is like the martell that we met when we first started hanging out the best apology has changed behavior no one was like oh i'm sorry my bad my bad my i know it's all good man just gonna say just do better let's do better oh hello hello what's up what's up what are you doing what's going on you regrouped from um the other day yeah that was tough yeah you made it tough thank you so much for coming out [ __ ] okay you're here yeah i nominated too well you really did what you do i i just let out some little truth and you know just you made her mad you you really made a mess see it feels the other way around it'd be like you shouldn't have gotten that man if you're around the things you were saying i would have threw the table at you he said he was being truthful though brooke said man can't beat hunters these days yes you can you have to speak your truth no you don't yes you do no you don't that's the only way to move forward in response that's not true at all i just feel like if you're going to talk about the situation then you have to be truthful about the situation right but how do you move forward when two people don't think they're wrong because whoever the person is like right now in this conversation okay whatever let's just agree to disagree okay we agreed to do this oh there she comes this is sexy sexy i can't be more happy with marcel and teacher right now that this has finally you know gotten to the place where we can get inside that camp isn't that cool yeah get a chance to see some of his ideas come to pass and jayla gets to do his little general manager today oh he is he's starting today yes that's good yeah that's really good tonight do we have tapas tonight we are going to have there's the man to ask that's the man the ass right here ladies and gentlemen welcome my new general manager general manager of black gm yeah congratulations that's success that black is on jalen's back even though there are some lingering issues between myself and the scots i want to support marceo and leticia with the opening of black you know i don't really know if martell is going to be here or not but i feel great knowing that marcus definitely has my back hey hey you guys [Applause] coming up on love and marriage huntsville i definitely wanted to talk to you about the comment that i made i just really wanted to apologize for that we're here right now because of martell because i kept doing kept doing wrong absolutely i never would have left you if you've never done wrong but i would have left you [Music] you look amazing right i feel even better i feel like this good and the opening so far has been good yeah in and out been good i've had one little mishap kind of didn't have a server so kind of going to have to serve a little bit you're a servant leader remember that hey look leave my example there you go this has been a challenge transitioning jiggling from you know college to the to the workforce but i think this is gonna be great for him i'm happy that he's landed something so we can put the ordeal to rest so what are y'all getting to drink everybody's getting a mule no i'm getting the black um billionaires special black billionaire what's the difference i don't know i need a black billionaire what's up melo how are you great how are you how are you feeling you look cute look at all of this now that oh i look like i'm gonna stay somewhere girl put me on there now okay everybody doing good out here you can't complain at all need anything yeah got some wings ready uh we're still on the cucumber black bites right now let me get you over here right quick i want to ask you something you look pretty thank you thank you yeah congratulations it's beautiful i love it thank you so much it is it's nice i'm happy you was invited in uk so i really appreciate that um i know that our last event that we was in you know it ended very badly so i definitely wanted to talk to you about the comment that i made you know when you was expressing yourself i felt like that was a moment for us to really try to move forward because you was open and you was expressing yourself um my guard was up still i don't want to keep ranking up the pass you know what i'm saying i'm like you know the passes have passed it we can't change nothing about the past the only thing we can do is just move forward so what made you i mean this is a big change from the day they retreat to now you know i thought about it you're not owning your stuff right now and what's that someone speaking you say i call bs and then wonder why they get mad honestly i really think it was my fault that the energy changed you know at the end i think that it could have ended in a different way had i just been open to listen to what you had to say and hear you out i just really wanted to let you know that you know and apologize for that well i want to say i appreciate you apologizing i don't think we just need to rehash the past just let the past be in the past and just move over absolutely in whatever direction that leads us absolutely yeah okay i'm actually amused by leticia right now cause we've been down this road before with the apologies and all of that and so sometimes it's hard for me to really decipher if she's being sincere or not and so i can only hope and pray that this apology is sincere and legit that's what we're talking right quick boss what's going on so at 4 45 we gotta go uh make the big reveal okay all right so i was just coming i didn't mean to interrupt i was just coming to let you know thank you all right all right i think that jalen is a good fan i believe in his core competence and the ability to run black jalen is definitely growing into the role as the gm for black he saw something that i didn't see [Music] everybody follow me i think there's no greater joy than to be able to spend this time with my friends and family so now here's the moment we all been waiting this is the moment this is it this is it hey guys thank you guys for coming i really appreciate it this is really near and dear to my heart we started as together as a group in the comeback group and as brothers growing up and family we always believed that we could do something beyond what we were living in my dad told me you can never leave a legacy unless you start one that's what this is about thank you guys for coming out [Applause] this mural represents like legacy marcel my brother micah my sister millie we all have sons around the same age and this is the next generation of the scots the baby girl should have been up there too that would have been nice but you know i'm just saying who knows where the baby girl is at i should know he's kind of sexist kind of that's beautiful beautiful [Applause] oh man keep me got him up hey you got a minute yeah yeah what's up just want to talk to you up here all right cool cool cool [Music] coming up on love and marriage huntsville you don't mind the kids around me i'm sure right i want them to to know husband wife now they've been exposed to husband's husband like that's right i don't want them to be confused about that [Music] that's beautiful beautiful okay so this is my hug thanks marcia oh man you got a minute yeah what's up just want to talk to you over here all right cool cool what'd you do so what's been going on first of all how you been i mean i've been alright man since the last time we we talked is um a bit heated some things were said that you know i didn't approve of didn't appreciate when the kids were at my house do you know what they told me when it was time to go they told troy will you be our daddy with your kids hey don't say that you said it again the thing is when we when i was trying to talk to you last time i wasn't trying to be nasty negative or anything like that nasty is an understatement for that you know especially being the father that i am i take pride in taking care of my children you know you guys can get give a kid cookies and they'll be so happy they'll be so happy and then they probably will say something like that but when you say that um a kid said something like that uh you're speaking so shallow that because to be a father you have to be so much more right and i'm all of that i was coming to you trying to tell you that both of y'all actions is affecting the kids which i'm sure you probably already know that what's happening so i was trying to tell you what the conversation was from the kids so that you would say okay me and melody maybe we need to do this differently in front of the kids i wasn't trying to come to you and tell you how to raise your kids or nothing like that because ultimately you are the parent yeah i'm not um but when they were around me for the last however long it was yeah um of course our relationship grew more right and you don't mind the kids around me i'm sure right no have i ever i don't know how many years 13. okay so i mean yeah i mean but but i mean like like i expressed the mail um to me your situation is unique you know um but i've always accepted you and your relationship like just like you and troy being married i mean i was accepted that but i want them to to know husband and wife is what i want for them just because men are not going through something now they've been exposed to husband husband like that's right i don't want them to be confused about that so then that's wrong i don't give a damn if it's wrong or right i'm saying that ain't what i want for my kids i was gonna say they should be around picking up what i'm doing because there's nothing negative about what i'm doing everything about my life has been positive never been in handcuffs 25 years of teaching retired sanctified preacher regardless of so one part of my life has nothing to do with the rest of my life so i understand that look they see on tv they watch shows they watch tv they see people shooting and killing people that doesn't matter they don't i hope my kids don't that doesn't mean they're gonna do it because they see they don't what y'all doing we're just talking trying to clear the air from um our previous conversation yeah oh okay what are we talking about now is just kind of talking about the kids being around me i just said i want a foundation for the kids i don't want their foundation to be husband husband their foundation has been husband and wife martel what are you talking about coming up on love and marriage huntsville are you going to get an attorney my attorney said you don't even have an attorney anymore like what are we doing you shut up there's no more shut the [ __ ] over here [Music] talking about now it's just kind of talking about the kids being around me oh it's okay for them to be around periodically but being around often every day i guess it's kind of negative because you don't want them to pick up i just say it's negative like i didn't like i didn't say as negative i didn't say it's good or bad i don't want their foundation to be husband husband their foundation has been husband and wife martel what are you talking about they already have a foundation um well they're so young their foundation really hasn't been fully developed that could come from your part as well for the things you've been doing you say that their foundation isn't fully developed yet i mean were you considering their foundation whenever you decided to mess up the family i i mean you messed up the family too how did i mess up the family because everything we're here because of you no we're here because of you yeah because you put you put everything out about more but about things being obvious about what you were doing that caused us to be here you did it too martell it's about what you were doing no i didn't i didn't do what you did sweetie never have martel needs to be worried about what he has done and what his children have seen and heard from him and not worry about marcus my brother loves my children and my children love him and i will not take that away from them what's the problem uh you know i don't have a problem with your brother or choice you know that because you're saying you said i've been around them for 13 years like we go there i want to go see them just as much as you i don't want the kids around your brother all the time that's all and you think you're better with the choices and things that they're around seeing you make and do and treat their mother god damn they the kids didn't see me do all of that they've seen you on facetime well they heard you on the phone talking to your dude no they never have that's all you have to do lawyer i'm not a lawyer tell me that the girls did not tell you that the girls didn't tell you that you never said that to me until now and i don't believe that this guy heated like always every time we get together it's always something so it's like what are we going to do and i know we we're going opposite directions but still we have to um find some type of median for the kids you know they're already being affected by us not being together and it's only making things worse i think for all of us you know um i still i love the i love the hell out of you know what i'm saying i do i wish this never happened i miss us i wish this was all a dream wish i was gonna wake up in you didn't tell me that not all of it mel i mean i know you hurt and i'm hurt going through things like i never me doing all that stupid stuff it's like i never wanted this to be us what did you think it would be because we had everything that we wanted everything was was right everything was right well you know all of that sounds good and all of that sounds like you know something that a person would want to hear the reality is you don't value and you did not value me you did not value our marriage you did not value our family you did not value everything that we worked our asses off at such a young age to create and you know the amount of time that i gave you to get it together and it's the pain i heard that you caused and for you to continue to sleep with what then became an enemy for me and now you have a baby coming by the same person that's a out for me i'm not checking for that at all i never will check for that ever ever understand yeah but you know um we got to move forward you know absolutely and we have to um be peaceful you say that this should be peaceful that that's not what you've been giving that's not what you've been given we i mean we haven't been given that you know i can't i can't just keep continuously let you say that i'm the cause of everything okay i'm no longer accept that well who is the cause tell me both of us in what way where we are in what way in what way go ahead please speak your piece well i mean i'm not gonna point the finger i'm not gonna do that i'm tired okay i wanna be peaceful it's just tough with you so you know that i mean i can say the same thing you know every time you see me you gotta throw jabs and stuff like that to let the world think that it was all because of martial but it was it wasn't no it was it was though we're here right now because of martel oh because i kept doing kept doing wrong absolutely i never would have left you if you've never done wrong i never would have left you but i would have left you for not doing what it's like what are we doing are you gonna get an attorney my attorney said you don't even have an attorney anymore like what are we doing you shut up there's no more shut the [ __ ] ups over here are you gonna get an attorney my attorney said you don't even have an attorney anymore all right what are we doing shut up you shut up there's no more shut the [ __ ] ups over here sign the papers what i said the only reason i want to be back with you is for the kids that may be an excuse that works for yourself that you deal with several of them i don't know but it doesn't work for me you're you're one that doesn't work for me no i'm not a whole how dare you say that and the fact that you sit here with me in front of my face when you know you're the one that this marriage up and you trying to call me a hoe you ain't you're not i'm done talking really much how you should be sign them papers that's right baby sign no papers and quit coming in my involved martel seems to have wanted to be married and single at the same time now it's seeming like he wants to be married and divorced at the same time martell thought that he could have his cake and eat it too but this cake is done with martel's ass for good man what y'all doing what's wrong baby i feel like he is just so amped on doing whatever it takes lies included to make me seem like i'm a certain way that i'm not and i'm tired of it and then he thinks he can disrespect first of all you've been disrespecting me for years let's be clear on that you can't go nobody but you you kept doing that you know what i'm saying you're not going to keep being disrespectful who the [ __ ] you think you are and it's like i'm to the point where i'm just like i don't want to talk to your demons because that's where you're coming from right now this should have been over and i'm so for real and i didn't want it to i promise i didn't want all this extra i just want it to be over you go i go we do what we got to do with the kids and just let it be over and he just makes every day a living hell if any way possible that he can it just makes me feel like i just want to get my kids and leave just leave and change my number don't tell nobody just so i can have peace this is not what i want for my life this is not what i want for my children i don't want the stress i don't want the drama i want what's best for us and i want things to end amicably like i don't understand i don't know why martel can't just feel the same way kimmy i'm sorry i know martell good guy you ain't gonna apologize to me and only you would know the true him you've been married to him and you know the good the bad and the ugly first of all why the hell you care who i'm entertaining or sleeping well you've got a whole baby on the way that you need to be focused on and work yeah the baby for real for real for real for real that's what he needs to be focused and worry about and that ain't got to do with me you better handle that over there with you by yourself he's just trying to make you like a whole sled out here pretty much he called me a hoe oh wow oh the [ __ ] he called me a hoe and then you wonder why i have no respect for you because you ain't what how do you feel like you know because keep saying you want your wife you want your family but you keep saying stupid that doesn't bring you back to your family we was like worse you could not take back once you go out there you can't take it back that's facts he he he could move this thing along he don't even have an attorney right now anymore because he don't want it he want his cake and eat it too i love tails that's my boy but i can't keep doing that because at the end of the day it's the kids you have to think about the kids yep i do and you know what i love seeing my kids happy when they're with me we have a good time i'm sorry i'll be glad when everybody is kind of like on a good space like on a good space where you you don't have to feel that way you know what i'm saying i don't i feel poorly i feel poor you have to be a dog yeah martel ain't about to change i'm sorry it's going to take a long time mel is my sister so if she's hurting of course i want to be there for her we can put all the drama to the side it means nothing if you see your sister hurting it's like forget all of that let's just be there for her [Music] women support women we know what each other goes through from time to time and amid all the bickering and the arguing and the insults nobody wants to see somebody fail nobody wants to see your marriage fail at this point we need to just wrap our arms around anyone in need but especially male in this moment because she needs us [Music] for these women to be able to be here for me in this moment this is really what it's all about outside of the bull this moment right here is really what life is about [Music] [Applause] next on love and marriage huntsville ever wonder how we got here this is behind the scenes cause nothing on this show is scripted period then you forget i'll talk to your wife i'll talk to your brother you can't get a job that just tell you how goddamn stupid you are man don't make no sense we were just letting it fly until well you got to pick me up leave let's go let's go man it's all like all the lines the story behind the story who's popping up because you're popping up how do you know i was popping up i could have just been coming to hang out i promise you you don't have this conversation y'all going behind the scenes behind the scenes her getting security that's not us production did not tell her to do anything if you have a problem say i'm offended that's exactly how i said it it's not gonna make sense it's about to get real i'm not doing the [Music] show you

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