Is Good is Better Than Perfect In Business? The Story of Two Bulls -Marye Dean, Esq.
welcome to fly nubian queen network the network for melanated people like you i am your host mary dean esquire here at thewallstreetlawyer.com and today i'm coming to you live from fly newbie queen not talking about what's going on in the mainstream media because you get enough of that stuff on the news right i wanted to to just lay some things on you that was laid on my heart today so we just gonna have a heart-to-heart talk tonight so come on in here and hit the share and subscribe button let me know where you are from drop your hashtag be one because we do what on this channel we always put black people first so drop your hashtag b1 and make sure you hit the share and subscribe button because i'm gonna kick some good knowledge tonight and i i am going to tune in on my instagram and make sure i'm going live while you guys hit the share and subscribe button hit the share and subscribe button okay we got uh mr spraggans in the house tonight it's always a pleasure be one of my b1 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brain and that what they say everybody's in the house tonight we got angel l brown thank you for coming in thank you we got sean peter great here on my instagram we got peabody all right thank you guys for joining me tonight joining me tonight as we get into this i'm going to give you guys a lesson that i learned today because i work with a business coach too one of the things you might not know about me is that i have a business coach i am a product of the product i'm getting into coaching for other entrepreneurs but i wanted to witness having working with the coach before i became a coach so that i could go through the process and perfect that skill in coaching other business owners and and what that process would look like so i've been having a ball and so today with my business coach is something that she left me with that just really stood out yes i'm picking out my fro i hope that don't distract y'all while i'm talking but my business coach said something aerial shout out to ariel uh she's actually getting a promotion so i won't be able to work with her one-on-one anymore i'm getting a new person who is really designed better equipped to work with me where i'm transitioning to with my company so i'm very excited about that but i digress she said something to me my business coach is uh thank you says somebody angel brown says my hair is big and so pretty guys um black power the blacker the better the sweeter the juice the bigger they had a bigger brain i'm about to kick you out some knowledge right now so my business coach said to me today as she was leaving me with some things and she's getting ready to go she reminded me of the old age that um the older days that good is better than perfect in business good is better than perfect in business and i thought that that's right and i did it live a couple days ago about the two bulls on the hill and so it really brought me back to the same story about the two bulls on the hill so she said good is better than perfect and i am a perfectionist so i am guilty of this i don't know if you guys are as guilty of this as i am as being a perfectionist but i am very much guilty of spending so much time perfecting the craft before i want to present the product and part of it i know i'm a lawyer and so as an attorney i i have a higher standard that i hold myself to a higher standard than i do most other comp than you are held to i am held to a higher standard than the average company and so there is a i am ethically bound to be at a certain level right but you know at that certain level is technically good it is good enough uh but because of that i tend to take it overboard and i am a perfectionist and sometimes as an a perfectionist you are spending so much time tinkering tinkering with the final product when it is beautiful as it is and i am definitely reminded you think of how a baby a baby who was first learning how to walk when that baby is first learning how to walk and the baby falls down a couple of times stumbles over itself king inches with scoots and boots do we look at the baby and say get up you little dummy get up you can't you're not walking right you're get get up you're not walking you should be walking you don't do that to a baby you allow the baby you go oh isn't this cute and so sweet and so cute and you just gradually go with the baby's transition the baby's natural transition you don't you don't you don't tell that baby that it should be walking you just you just allow it to blossom in its own beautiful time mayor dean esque here at thewallstreetlawyer.com for those of you that are coming in coming in late now i'm i'm giving you my natural self i brought out my natural hair for black history month i'm looking like this all black history month also i said i'm gonna be walking around like the jive people turkey but that's beside the point but yeah i know black history month for those of you joining me and i'm talking about is good better than perfect in business how is good better than perfect in business and what my business coach told me today i'm working with a business coach because i want to be a better coach to my clients so you have to be a product of a product you used to so what my business coach told to me today that i thought was very inspiring so much so that i wanted to just talk about that tonight not about what's going on in the media not none of those things i want to talk about this it touched it touched my spirit and that is good in business good is better than perfect and so it brings me back to the story of the two bulls so let me get into it but before i do if you're looking to grow your business please check out flymoobianbusiness.friendmoviebusiness if you're looking to grow your money please check out slidenubiamoney.com
and you can always find me mary dean esquire online at thewallstreetlawyer.com okay there are the story of two bulls there are two bulls standing on a hill overlooking a pasture full of cows the younger bull eager but lacking experience says to the old bull hey let's run down there and let's run down there and i a cow okay this is the story of two bulls you know i'm a i'm a bull lover i i the charging bull on wall street follows me on twitter uh i am definitely a bull bull myself in a skirt so i just the bull story just just oh but i digress okay so there are two bulls standing on the hill overlooking the pasture full of cows the younger bull eager but lacking experience says to the old boy hey let's run down there and a cow the old bull who's who has spent season after season in this pasture turns to the younger bull chuckles and replies now how about we walk down there and them all okay now that's according to the this article that is the old version and the old version is the old version because it's been revised and the revised version says the young bull says the the younger bull says back to the old bull but what if we get down there and they are all gone that's the that's the modern version so that was the old way was slow and steady wins the race but in the new age and in the society where people are engaged and engorged in constant social media and constant which means they're constantly being marketed to 24 hours a day seven days a week anytime that you grab your handy-dandy little cell phone anytime you grab your handy-dandy little cell phone and open it up and hop on any one of your apps you are being enticed tintellated um a carrot is being dangled in front of your face by some company or somebody who is seeking to have your attention and so we're we live into that fast-paced society so if you spend too much time tinkering with your final product by the time you get your product out on the market you will have done what ladies and gentlemen you will have missed the wave you will have missed the wave and so you don't want to miss the wave and so that's where you don't you if there is a yes you want to be a professional you want to be at a certain standard of professionalism and care and delivering your product or service to the market but you do not want to spend so much time tinkering with it that you miss the wave i want you to catch the wave so i'm going to how how can what can you do to better catch the wave okay i'm going live right now on my instagram i don't really do this a lot but uh keep the party going going live on my instagram if you're here with me on facebook page with fly no being queen make sure you hit the share and subscribe button hit the share and subscribe button so that other queens and kings can get this knowledge that i'm kicking to you and remember if you are looking to grow your business please check out fly newbie and business.com if you are looking to better manage your money please check out flynnumbianmoney.com you can always find
me meredine esquire online at thewallstreetlawyer.com okay so let's get back into this okay so yeah okay so i'm glad who's with me tonight we got dennis braggins who says i am a natural coach i thought you were already a coach well i'm glad you said that because yes i am yes i am yes i am and i do provide coaching for a few of my clients and as you'll see soon i do provide coaching for dr boyce watkins i've just started with that so we're about to really launch some exciting projects that we'll be working on uh one-on-one so i'm very excited about that so stay tuned for that one says let's walk everybody drop here make sure you drop your hashtag b1 yes i'm mayor dean esquire here at thewallstreetlawyer.com make sure you put an e on my name it's mary with the e and state representative dr alma a allen will always like people to say mary mary mary with an e mary with an e okay so let's get back into this so here's the thing if you find yourself tinkering with your product longer than you should be and you want some guidance on how to get that product to the market faster i'm going to give you three tips three things that you can do to help you focus on getting that product to the market a lot faster so the first thing i want you to be you need to be aware of is that god do not worry do not worry about every all of your eyes not being dotted and all of your t's not being crossed because what no no let me rephrase that i'm not telling don't cross your t's and dot your eyes let me no cross your t's and dot your eyes but what i'm trying to say is that where you out because i do want i don't want to i want you guys to make sure you hit a certain standard of care and level of professionalism so by no means am i saying that this is a way to shortcut you delivering your product or service at a certain standard of care okay i really want you guys to make sure you do that because we this is the home for intelligent black people and we are not we we do things at a certain level and we never fall below that standard of care not that's not how we do things over here so um but what i'm trying to say is that where i cut off is where god picks up and so i have been a you know i i you know if you look on my website you see that i have this quote that says uh in order to manifest abundance one must understand the co-creation process with infinite intelligence and i'm basically talking about understanding how to work with god energy whatever you call it known by many names but how do you best work with that and so in this situation what i'm trying to say is that where i cut off that's where god where my human ability ends that's where god divinity begins and so i've always always always always no that's what my that's where my shine comes from that's where my pizzazz and that extra little sprinklings on top and i have always worked with god energy and always leaned to that for my increase i do as much as i can humanly do as much as i'm capable of doing everything within my power while also getting adequate rest while also getting adequate exercise while also having adequate family time because life is all about balance and allowing myself even you know to let me the ego rest so that god can do what he can take over and so the first point is that we always must understand that you're always ready and that where you where you end is where god begins and so god will always give you that increase and to learn how to trust that lean on that expect that and and and work with that energy that is one of the things that i do coach with my clients and and really drill home and teach you how to hear that voice for yourself so god is going to give you the increase god always gives you the increase and so when you if you're worried about not being ready you're always ready you're always ready you're always ready when you're always ready you're always ready and then you just remember that you speak that you stay ready you don't have to get ready you know what the old pimps say you know what they say if you stay ready ladies and gentlemen you don't have to get ready yes that's how we do it i'm flying to being queen the network for melanated people like you okay sorry i'm getting a little happy i'm getting a little happy so yes god will give you the increase and so you know the less time that you spend your energy worrying and the more time you spend your energy in gratitude thanking god and excitement and passion that is how you find the momentum and you can find the wave i spend my thing i'm excited i'm happy i'm in my head every time a client is calling to talk to me i'm doing a tootsie roll because i know that that's an opportunity for me to be able to work with counsel teach enlighten inspire help grow another black owned business so i'm just thanking god before you even show up so when you show up my my surroundings i i'm caught up in the momentum and it's a lot easier to catch you up into that momentum with me that is how i work okay so the other thing that i want to say is that you know i'm from the south side of houston texas that's why i was born all the way to wall street for real i got my stories and i'm gonna tell y'all some of them stories but the stories for another day okay so yeah the wall street lawyer got come from the south side of houston texas and one of the things that old pimps always used to say was you studied long you studied wrong you studied love you studied wrong well if you studied alone you studied wrong and so that's that's another thing for this stuff when is is good better than perfect in business you study long you study wrong and one of the things we do at blackwallstreet.com is to help you study
faster and we do that with um we do that ah we got reverend pervay in the house such a boss my girl yes i am mary dean esque here at the wall street lawyer.com look at him look at god i'm preaching tonight and got a reverend on the line yes lord jazz guys that first point was making sure god gives you the increase because that's how we do it over here all right uh but we are right now you study long and study wrong and so what i found because i'm into a whole lot of stuff spiritually and sometimes when you keep the asking you know what you're really doing is you're really worrying when you're going back and you fourth in your mind you can't figure that's called worry that's called worry it's not called clarity it's not called knowing what to do and so when you fight you're not gonna figure it out and and and the sooner you just try to stop figuring it out on your own the better call me you know bring in an expert meredith squad the wall street lawyer dot com but if you if that's you know that's not where you are then but you definitely don't want to spend too much time going back and forth with in your mind so the best thing to do sometimes is just to get off the subject altogether that's where you you you go work out go for a walk in the park go take a break go have a phone call with someone get your mind off the subject because when you're trying to figure out that's ego when you get your mind off of the subject you can allow yourself to be open to the answer and to the energy god being energy that has all of the answers for you so just get off the subject get off the subject take a nap you know ask god to show you in your dreams i do all that kind of stuff i do whatever it takes but everything other than worry i might go study might do a little research sure you might go educate yourself but if you study long you study wrong so do not be in the state where you're going you know playing ping pong in your mind weighing the pros and cons i don't do all of that i follow my inspiration i let the spirit guide me in my business decisions if it doesn't you know and and how do we know the spirit is guiding you or not how do you know when god is involved when god is in the situation you feel nothing but supreme love this is these are the these are the laws of the universe which is what i talk about in my book the laws of the universe when god is involved you feel nothing but joy nothing but passion nothing but excitement okay and so you fought that's why they tell you to follow your heart and this is why they say love is the greatest power that exists so you fought you follow you your bliss you follow and that's that's how you know that's how you know you have fun you have some fun you should be having fun as you're building your business people you should be having the time of your life mayor dean esquire here at the wall street lawyer.com and if you're looking to grow your business please check out flynnubianbusiness.com if you're looking to better manage your money please check out flyingtonmoney.com you can always find
me meredine esquire online at thewallstreetlawy.com okay and the last point i had on my little handy notepad is that you will build get get when you co-creating with god and you you he shows you one step you take that step and you realize you're walking on water you take another he shows you to take another step you take another step and then you realize that you're walking on water and before long you're kind of walking on water and so that's the process of starting your own business and running your own business and how it's done right you don't you don't get the whole mansion built out before you on day one you may get the vision you you will get the vision you will get the vision right and the vision that vision will come to you as you're building your foundation so you will get the vision but the step-by-step day-to-day things will be revealed to you step-by-step and day-to-day and so being open to that being open to sometimes you just gotta jump out the plane and build the wings will come as you're going down the wings will reveal themselves and before you know it you shall be flying little birdie oh you shall be flying flying mary dean esquire here at the wall street lawyer.com and as always i've had a pleasure talking with you tonight we'll get into some some other events tomorrow let's see who in here with me before i let you go somebody said i'm kind of sexy i know it's this big hair y'all you know what they say the black and the better the sweeter the juice the bigger they had a bigger brain and that means the bigger the tip that's what i'm talking about okay so um then so someone okay dennis practice are you saying get it done then perfect ones crap i'm saying get it done good get it to good get it to good enough good enough for you good enough where you feel confident now you don't want to get it too good enough and it's it's falling apart and it embarrasses you you don't want to be embarrassed you don't want to show up with your slip hanging so no you don't want to be embarrassed but so it has because i look i ain't walking out the house looking all over any kind of way now now okay okay okay so no you get it to a point where it's good enough but do not spend too much time going back and forth trying to perfect something that is already perfect do not expect the baby to come out the womb walking and talking you have to give the baby the opportunity to be a baby and don't be too afraid to show that beautiful baby to others people will be excited about your growth oh and a wonderful example people will be excited to take that journey with you but think about your favorite rap artists and your favorite musical artist and even some of your favorite film film stars right some of their very first projects are the one that you love the most can can can i get an amend on that can i get a hallelujah on that yeah i laugh at my own jokes but no seriously we always say man he was great his the one he did his underground stuff was so much more fire than this is his stuff that's mainstream i liked him before he you know i like to hold him i like the whole i like the him uncut i like the so that's always taste we we tend to we tend to like people in their most raw authentic self anyway and so and your friends will grow with you they will appreciate your evolution but don't be don't think that your newborn baby your newborn baby is going to be beautiful in this newborn state your newborn baby business is just as beautiful as it is as a newborn as it is as a three-month-old as it is as a toddler as it is when it gets into its teenage years and then when it's as young adult and goes on off to to live and it's happily ever after okay it's beautiful in all of its stages and don't be too high and mighty or too insecure about your your your baby that you don't want to show that beautiful baby to the world because it's a new one when the whole world can't wait to see your new baby business and can't wait to google and gaga all for your little baby business and would love to even even donate and be a part of your business baby growth and say you know what i've been a customer since i was a customer when it was in the old shack oh i was a you know what that's actually a line from if you don't know my favorite rap artist is toby the wigway you got to get into this guy toby no iguay is absolutely fire uh 420 in houston texas is toby nui way day so toby nowego is the truth mayor sylvester turner our black mayor he did really good with that he did really good with that uh making honoring tony because he's such a good rapper he's not he's more than a rapper he's really moving he's an artist this okay which is artist activism it's an artist who is taking their platform and taking their voice and spitting that using that to be about change using that to be be one bla putting black people first allowing that to be a part of the product now and so he he did it at his finest and one of his you know he wraps with his wife he's got his babies children his babies are in the videos very wholesome hard ass rapper from the southwest side of houston texas and uh his wife got a line in the song where she says aunt that she loved him when he was broke when he was on i've been with him when he was broke on causeway that's what your clients and customers are going to say about your business they're going to say i've been a customer of this i've been a fan of this business i've been a fan of this artist i've been a fan of this brand before you even knew that the brand existed okay people like to brag on that so in keeping with that harmony do not disappoint your customers do not disappoint your clients do not disappoint the vendors that are all waiting in the wings to do business with you do not disappoint all of those people that are from your vision you know the vision you see for yourself when you close your eyes and think and you got that vision from god about what your business and the potential of what your business can was and what's going in is doing in the future itself somewhere in your vortex that vision all of those people over there are waiting for you to join the party so don't you hold back because you feel like your baby business is not the same as the billion dollar corporations out there because you got something that they don't have and what is that that they don't have they don't have you [Music] mary dean esquire here at thewallstreetlawyer.com coming to you
live on flying the b queen network the network for melanated people like you also coming live to my people on instagram because that's how we doing tonight talking about whether or not is good is better than great if you miss the beginning if you're just not joining when this live is ending i hope that you go back and watch the beginning um so that because you missed the you missed the treat boom you missed the treat or you can also go on flying to being queen and watch it and before i get out of here on fly no being queen uh let's see uh uh matilda matilda smith matilda spooky spooky smith i hope i'm not butchering your name queen but she said she definitely needed to hear this and i never uh oh and i definitely needed to hear that because this was one of the first times i don't normally do this i don't normally do this but uh keep the party going no i don't normally go live on a random topic i'm usually going live on what's been going on in the media but my business coach told me today that i needed to start going live about some of the show some of my underbelly a little bit the part of myself that i try to keep hidden i guess and she said i need to pull back and get loud and you don't if you don't know me personally which some of y'all don't but i am loud as okay i am loud i am so loud i play the drums i play the tambourine and you don't even know these things about myself but those of you who see me in the streets of new york city or see me in the streets of houston texas uh you know your girl can get loud so i'm going to do that on social media that is my new goal for 2022 you're going to hear more of me you're going to hear more of me antonio jackson in the house hey queen v b1 okay hey queen b1 queen b1 queen b1 uh okay thank you thank you i i'm gonna say that i look amazing queen yes y'all like me in my ungawa black power hair so we're gonna close out on that note because i do look amazing ain't got good god is good all the time and you you look amazing too and until we meet again until we meet again i want you guys to know that i truly truly truly love you i truly truly truly cherish the time that you spend with me that you want to hear me talk and run my mouth about you know a little bit of something i might not know something you keep on you keep on listening you keep on listening i might kick you you might get you might learn something but thank you for your time and until we meet again bye bye uh you you you you