How to Get Outside Your Comfort Zone & Promote Your Business | MarieTV Live Call-In Show
In this episode of marietv we, do have some adult language so, if you have a little ones around grab, your headphones now. Hey. It's marie forleo and, you are watching marietv the, place to be if. You want to create a business in life you love and this is the marietv, Colin. Show or we take live, collars we answer some questions we have a really good time all, of team forleo's here Greg, is here who's amazing. Always, he, did this cute low pony we'll, talk about that another time but I say we, get started roll. It. Hello. Hi. Is this Marlena. It's. Marie forleo and, you're on the marietv live Colin, show. No. Way yes, way mama so you're here with myself and Gregory and all of, team Forleo, let, us know your question, and we will do our best to help you out, hello. Everyone. I. Just. Want to say you guys are a really. Admirable team, oh thank. You so much that means the world and all the rest of team forleo who is not in the studio today that means the world to them so thank you. Thank. You, so. Um yeah, a little bit about me I'm, a two-time cancer survivor. My, most recent experience, was with breast cancer it. Resulted. In me having a double, mastectomy, and. So. After. This experience, surgery I'm a little nervous I'm a little star-struck yes, okay. Girl we're here and you're, doing great. So, after this experience I designed. This temporary, tattoo and a. Variety, of products, for example temporary. Tattoos nipples so, you. Know a woman could get online and, order. These wonderful, products, and have, them delivered to her door try. Them on and a privacy of their own home and. You. Know it's just this wonderful, fantastic. Product. That I've come up with so I, got. You know I did, all the foot work I have my trademarks. I have my website, I've. Got a hashtag. Now. All I need to do is hit go literally. Hit go don't make this most nightlife and, I. Keep coming up with all these reasons not. To do, it what up with me my. Love my love first of all I gotta say so many, things to you I wish I could reach through the, camera. The computer, the telephone, and just give you this enormous hug you are so strong you are so beautiful, inside and out and I am so grateful. That you're here with us you are such an inspiration to so many so that I needed to say and you, just got something Fetty thrown at you from Gregory so that's piece number one piece. Number two, is, what. You're experiencing, right now is so. Normal. It is so normal I cannot tell you how many times, over the course of my career that, I've run into brilliant. Incredible. Creative, motivated. Purpose driven people who, find themselves having. So much trouble hitting, that Go button, launching. Sending. The email picking up the phone doing that one thing that, in their heart they know, is that, important, next step so you're not alone there but. What I want, to tell you today my friend is your, business, and by the way I took a little peek over at your Instagram and I took a little peek at what you've done and Tim for Leo we've looked at it too and all of us are jaws, hit the ground it, is so stunning it is so incredible, it is so unique and what you're doing is so important. So I really, need you to hear me when, I say this okay the. Whole thing that you need to train yourself to do my love is to, act before, you. Think, act. Before. You think you've done all of this incredible footwork, and the only thing that's stopping you is these little stories, up in here, but I will tell you this you have to train yourself to override. The, voice in your head that says I can't or I'm afraid or, it's not the right time or what are people gonna think of me or yadda yadda yadda yadda you have to be brave your way into success, I do this I'll give you some examples different, but the same at the core level there. Are many many times when, this woman she does not want to get up at the Rocka dawn when, it's dark outside and it's cold I, don't want to get out of my cozy bed I don't want to go to the gym there are a million times when I can hear the voice in my head saying you don't want to do it ya, don't wanna do it and you know what I do I act. Before, I think I go put on my training shoes I walk, over and go make my little bulletproof, coffee I start, going through the motions and before, you know it I am doing the thing that my mind previously, told me you, don't really want to do it it's too early stay, in bed so, you got to train yourself to act before you think and I'm gonna tell you something I'm gonna give you a little challenge right here are you ready for a momma I'm.
Ready. What. Is the thing that you have to do in order to in, your, estimation, hit go on this business is it literally like hitting a button to publish the website is, it, something else that you can articulate something concrete and specific you can tell us right now, it's. Literally, hitting the button to push go on the website I keep. Looking at it I've revised it maybe 10 times and it's. Just never good enough okay I've come to the conclusion that it is good enough I'm just yeah. Okay, breathe do you have your browser window open. No, I'm actually. Okay. Perfect. Marlina perfect perfect perfect thank you for safety first here's, what you need to do when you got a promise, me girl promise, me that you will do this I need you to when you get your little butt home the. First thing you're gonna do is you're gonna actually hit go on your. Website you're gonna do this and you're gonna call, you're gonna write to Louise and let her know that it's done you're gonna give like take a little selfie and say I did it I swear I'm telling you or I'm gonna come find you yes, you, will and I'm gonna push that button for you it's, not gonna be fun, because I'm gonna be mad well Marie. Forleo, is, my accountability. Girl. Like. How far are you away from home like hell, on fire, I need it I have you but. You. Better get, your run, because. We call, a couple more people we're gonna we're gonna talk to a couple more of our viewers we're gonna answer some questions girl here's what I'm gonna do bills we all have chills you're, doing this it's gonna happen and then it's off to the races from there I want you to get your boat home you, hit publish then your gonna email Louise and you're gonna call us back and tell us you did it and everyone. Like literally tens of thousands of people are gonna cheer you the, on you cool what the heck already crying, for you. Are. You cool, I'm. Cool yeah I do it okay you're gonna hang up the phone safely, get back on the road two blocks get yourself home hit, go and then email Louise and then we're gonna call you back in just a few minutes like you're one push away forget successful. One. Whoa. Oh tell us your website tell us your website right now it's. Wwwo. Here still sexy, calm still, here still sexy, calm, we got it thank, you girl okay drive home and then we'll talk to you a few good love you go. That's. How we do one push. Away from but. I but the underlying message you guys is still, so, relevant, if you listen, to your mind you ain't gonna do you will sit on the couch you will watch Netflix. And chill until you're dead I am Telling You this thing is not, always your friend it, is really not it is a tool that we must master we cannot be mastered, by it so, 9 times out of 10 when, you find yourself not doing what you know is really good for you act before, you think cool, cool. Hello. Hello. Is this easy. It. Is you're, on the Murray TV live call-in show welcome. Awesome. Thank you so much for and asking. For my question. Absolutely. So you're here with team poor leo gregory myself, why don't you tell us your question, and we will do everything that we can to help you out love, okay. So, at, first of all it's a thank you so much i found your channel, when, i was going through a message. Of depression, and it, really helped me clear. Through that and find my own passion and that's been awesome and, then to be school and that's helped us become.
The Biggest, organization, for us in scotland so it's been awesome so. Thank you so much for all your help oh thank, you that warms our heart awesome, love it, so. My question is how do you get people to want, to join list so. We have our classes our fuel which is fabulous. And we're. In the process of becoming the, first trampoline club in Scotland to have its own Performance. Center but. We need to build a waiting list for it so that we have like, a backlog, of people ready to come in yes we, currently do things, like social. Media and, every. Week we do a monthly newsletter, if. There is a space we then give them. To. Tweak. Taster, session and then they can try to join. When. GB. Won a silver medal at real in 2016, we. Had a massive, influx, of people our waiting list went up 200. Everyone. Who was inquiring joining the waiting list however, Olympics, only happens every four years yeah so what things, would you recommend us doing, now. To kind of create that buzz and sort of almost like a look at a new iPhone yeah, the. Concept before it's even been released that's, right okay. So I love this question in my love and first, of all congratulations, to you guys for doing all of this incredible work and getting to where you are right now that is no small feat so. Thank you and by the way I just love that I'm hearing a little Deo in the background, I know, I'm. Currently at training I'm currently hiding in the, cupboard oh great. Happy. Yeah man I've hidden the bathroom for phone call.i with, you so it's all good so here's. What I love, so you actually, gave yourself the clue and you have the clue I'm just gonna help you fill in a little bit of this and hopefully, inspire you, guys to do some major creative, brainstorming so. As you, mentioned just like when for, example Apple, comes out with a new iPhone, there's all this anticipation, they. Create interest and desire there's a lot of buildup what. I need you guys to do is to actually think about this like a campaign.
Think. About this like a campaign, so you want to build it out and think, about what. Could be easy, the most irresistible. Offer. That, you can make something, that's potentially outrageous. That may or may not I don't want to say make you guys lose money but, that you may think like oh my god if I offer that could I really deliver on it or if, I got a hundred people to say yes to this we'd have to work our asses off but you know what it would create some buzz so, since you're Abby's cooler you know then I am a huge, fan of figuring. Out ways to deliver, a fish additional, value, so. Yeah, maybe, what we'll do and you know what I'm gonna have Louise Louise might, mute, you up just for a second I'm gonna get through a little, bit of what I'm gonna say and then we'll pop you back on for your feedbacks so. What. I want you guys to do is to brainstorm, and I, always like to use the little sentence, stem called wouldn't, it be cool if it's. A great way to get your mind going so wouldn't it be cool if everyone. Who signed up for the wait list not, only got to private, sessions but they also got this group training, program and a party, and something, else wouldn't. It be cool if we could reach out to every, gymnastics, organization. Around Scotland, and around the UK and offer them some kind of affiliate, Commission to really pump out this word wouldn't, it be cool if we hired. A video team and some of our top. Trampoline. Masters, on making that up to, do an entire, video, campaign. All, these, different, tricks that you guys could make it so aspirational, with. Music. And making, it like a little commercial, and saying you know releasing, it four days three, days two. Days I hope, you're catching my snowdrift to your girl because, really you have to do is craft, an irresistible. Offer something. That people are like this, is a no-brainer like if I don't get on this waitlist, I'm stupid, that's, how you want people to feel so. That's gonna require you guys to push yourselves creatively, it's, gonna require, going. Into zones that you're like I don't know how to do this but I'll figure it out because everything, is, figure, out about you can't see it but I'm holding up a mug that says that, essentially. It's, how we operate. Anytime we're gonna release b-school, and we're about to relaunch, a program that we've had for a while called the copy cure and literally it's all heads, hearts, and hands on deck, to think about how can we make this idea this program, this offering. Irresistible. A no-brainer, where people look at it and go if I'm interested in this thing I can't not say yes so. Those are some of my ideas the the second thing I want you to do since you know that you want to wait list I've I think about a hung people obviously, you need to strive for like 150 or 200, you always want to shoot above what you think you can get because. Sometimes, we don't meet that goal but we come real close so you want to always overshoot. Let, me see if I had any other notes for you yeah. Essentially, there needs to be urgent, e that's the other piece you know this its, urgency. Slash scarcity. Depending, on how you want to construct your campaign talk, about the difference virgin, see is when, there's a deadline, either you're in or you're out by this particular date scarcity, in your case I mean there's only 100, yes. They. Are TC would really help yes. So. Now. If you know missing oh that's, right so, girl and I know this is like kind of a little bit of a crass statement, but I need you and your, team to go balls to the wall with your creativity, and stop it to. Make a creative, irresistible. Offer that's. What it's gonna take, I know you have it in you because, of what you've been able to built already what, you've been able to create. And how much attention and success you've already built this, is gonna push you though to your next creative and business level and Here I am certain, in every bone in my body but you got it, that. Is awesome that is really, really inspiring I definitely, feel that sort of idea of a campaign, and serve, almost like an election, and really pushing ya, bringing the buttons and we've.
Done Some filming work so then we can expand, on that and use some really cool we've got friends and some of the members are quite good cameras so she's, really video good video video photography and stuff for that is it really build it yes exactly. And, make, the, notion. Of saying guess to the wait list again, you want it to be so, irresistible that, for yet folks who you serve are like I gotta say yes to this even, if for you you're like oh that's kind of getting into my my, profit, margin as little or even if you have to hell I would lose some money I would, happily lose a little bit of money if the, payoff long-term. Was big enough I am always happy to invest in the long term success if it cost me a little bit of short-term coin always. So if that's your place, in this matter please, push it and go for it because you're creating something that your country and probably your part of the world has never seen before and you got to do everything in your power to make it win, thank. You that is absolutely awesome awesome. Alright we you please keep us up to date we're gonna be cheering you on if I had a trampoline I'll jump it right now. Thank. You that's awesome thanks, Izzy talk to you soon thank, you bye. Hello. Olga. Marie. Forleo you, are on with team for Leo Gregory. And this is the marietv laugh call-in show oh. Okay. Well. We are so excited to have you on today let us know your question and we will do our very best to help you out. Okay. So my question was how do you find the courage, you would speak up when. Your message is very controversial. Because. I'm just launching, a new. Like. A whole new project where, I want, to help people who are going to divorce that I just excuse. And. I found it a little bit too painful, when it didn't need it to be that way yes, and my, ex and I found a really loving way to do it but it just took it. Took a process, it took you know knowing how to do it and, we didn't really have a lot of support most people didn't understand, what was happening yeah so. Yeah I, want, to start putting that new the. New. Concept, out there so I created this project. Called, divorce for love where, I'm trying to make people understand, that people doesn't have to be a failure that it can be a very loving thing that you don't have to hate your partner who wants to move on but. I just started doing. My new YouTube channel and I'm. Just finding a lot of resistance inside, of me because I don't want people to go like oh my girl just wrote divorce and you're breaking families, and all that I just want people to know that there is another option and that it can be learn in a lot of way so yeah my question is how do you find the courage to speak, up when you just wanna be, silent, and be like okay doesn't, matter yeah. Absolutely. Well, first of all I just want to commend you for. Your. Project, and for what your working on and for, the message that, you're committed, to sharing because, it's important, just because something, ends whether, it's a relationship or, it's, a business or it's a creative endeavor or any type of goal because. It's done doesn't, mean it's a failure even if you've elected, to leave it or stop, it or call, it quits, so to speak so, I am, leaping on exactly. Yes. Sister, absolutely. And here's the other thing I want to tell you girl, and you know this but, it's the truth people, will come for you because it's the internet and there's a ton of shitty people on the internet that say all kinds, of things and that are, mean and ignorant. Or they're just real opinionated. Like you are okay, because you have your view and other people have their view and just like it's your right to speak about what you believe in it is their right to speak about what they believe in - now, that. Said, it's. Just the reality of the days and times that we're living in but what you want to do is prepare. Yourself, because you have to make, your message and the mission, more important. Than, your insecurities, you have to make what, you want to achieve which. Is this, experience, of love and giving people a sense of freedom way. More, prominent. Than your own fear, about, being criticized. Okay, and the way that you do that is you prepare yourself so one, of the things that I really want to recommend you do is read, a book called nonviolent, communication it's. By an author called Marshall, Rosenberg, you, can look it up on Amazon get, that thing it's one of the core books that we have everyone read on team forleo because, we interact with a lot of humans lots.
Of Them I mean I think we said I don't know Louise what was it like it, was close like 50 million emails, last year we've got like tens of millions of YouTube things, and comments I don't even go there sometimes, anymore because people are that shitty and I don't give a, I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do but, for. You, what. You want to do is when you want to address people, who, are. Really. Bringing up valid, points, and perhaps want to have a dialogue with you a meaningful. Dialogue that's, based, in honor. And respect, indignity you want to be able to approach those conversations. With, composure, with, intelligence. With respecting. Their point of view but also presenting. Something different so. Criticism. In and of itself is not something that we should run from because, it can help us to grow better and if you're paying attention to people who again are approaching. You whether it's an email or comments, from, a place of genuine, respect, and wanting to just share ideas and talk about different possibilities. You may find opportunities, to make your own thinking. Better, more, advanced, more inclusive, they may bring up points that you would have never considered before that, could actually help you achieve your mission in a bigger and better way but, the thing. That I want to let you know is is, there's. No way in this world that. You can make a difference, without making. Waves. It's. Important. You're. In Hawaii so, this one's really good for you you're, gonna be looking at that ocean go Murray told me there ain't no way I can make a difference without making waves and it is the truth so. Surrender. I'm sitting, right in front of the ocean I. Make. Waves yeah. My. Intuition my. Intuition, runs this thing it runs, this, thing I guess so excited but that was for you and that one's for everyone any time, in my life that I have been committed to making a difference in any, way shape or form I have made a lot, of waves and I get a lot of hate and a lot of criticism, a lot of upset and you know what my. Mission is more important than all of, that and there's, another thing that I want you to remember this.
Is Something that really helps me especially when Jersey, Murray wants, to come out and just cut people to size which he wants to clap back and show them what's up. Every. Bit of communication that. Every, human being shares is either, a loving, response or a cry, for help it's. Something that's from A Course in Miracles you, may or may not believe that statement, some people don't yet a that I choose, to believe it because I think that it's really helpful, for, helping me stay in a place of compassion, and. Then quite frankly for. Just the, assholes, right that come out on the Internet delete. No, don't look at them blue-black, oh so. There ain't no need for that for people that want to have an intelligent discussion awesome. But, put your attention where it's gonna be most impactful which, is for the people who really want this message who, need this message and who would really like to learn what, you have experience and want to look at divorce, and moving, on to a next chapter and a whole fresh loving, compassionate, way. Exactly. And what you just said about the conversation, that's the first thing that I said my word study I just want to change the conversation I just wanna be able to talk about it I'm not saying my ways the way I just want, to teach people options, and. The. Reason why I wrote to you was because I remember a story that you said about one time you were in a seminar, and you were like giving your elevator, pitch to somebody and he was totally dismissive, and say like oh you must have a rich husband, because it is no media business, yeah I remember thinking, oh my, gosh thank goodness, marry, some charity, thank you were like oh. That. Didn't, stop, you that's kept you going and that's what I was afraid that somebody, was gonna make a comment like that and I was gonna be like oh y'all ride my. Corner but hearing, you for. An example of what can be done they are know these things to me yeah, I'm ready to go out there and make way yeah do, it girl right in, that episode and that story really sometimes I put down is the best fuel to fire you up so I always take some of that hate some, of that haterade, some of that dismissive, stuff some of that and by the way I will tell you people still underestimate. My ass I'm like watch, out I'll, do, it more if you work at all that doesn't fire, me I, love being that dog that's fun as so anyway. Yes. Now. I was gonna say that I certainly do installation. From all the people who have done what I want to do and you're one of them and from my past experiences. Where even when it was difficult, yeah I stuck. With it and you know that what you were sayin at the beginning I sometimes you just gotta move on from something I've, owned three very successful restaurants. And once. It's my heart wasn't in cooking, for other people, I sold, them and everybody was like oh my gosh what are you doing you're crazy don't do that but, I knew that my heart was in it and I was ready to move on and now I'm, I have there avenues. That really steal my heart so yeah we can sort, of keep that carriage happy is that sorry I need inspiration. That's right baby well we love you we are wishing you so much luck in this next endeavor oh I'm thinking about you on the waves please, keep us posted and, thank you again for being on the show I, will. Thank you so much for calling me I love talking to you thank, you I love. Hello. Incredible. The. Weight, is lifted off of my chest, I'm so excited well, your sight is beautiful, we're just like rolling around right now and. You. Know oh my god stunning. Oh my, god girl yes. This is this. Is, ridiculous. Oh by the way I just saw where you were you're, in Montana, we, happen to know another badass in Montana we're gonna hook you up because there's we have friends over there that you just need to know about this is so baller and so amazing, we, love you congratulations. How does it feel to act before you think. Fantastic. Yeah. Good, good good keep that mantra, you're doing great we love you we love you we love you what did you want to say Louise anything no, it's all good okay you keep us posted, everyone's. Gonna cheer you on when this airs and you, just keep it rockin woman. Wonderful. Thank you so much again I can't I can't thank you enough. Well. Happy Campers thank, you for watching, another episode of the marietv call-in show don't forget, that. Everything. Is due out above everything, is bigger audible. It's, a key message and basically. My life hey I want. 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