Exes Take A Lie Detector Test
Hey I'm stayin today, the video is a lot different from past lie-detector, videos I'm gonna go to each of their homes have them talk about their, story from beginning to end you seem upset was, horrific. Toxic. Whoa this. Is really weird I kind of like held that over him I was like breaking, up a few I'm a little scared are you guys allowed to be like explicit, really hear both sides of, the story where things went well where, things turned sour if, he leaves the room as laptops, on I'll like look, at that their chest story how it ended, and whose fault it was ask them all the questions that I have yeah, in, your bag yeah. At. The end I'm gonna have them strap up and ask each other anything that they've ever wanted, I'm nervous does your mom still hate me do you regret dating, me throughout, the time comment below who do you relate to what have you experienced, in the past that was similar to this couple he would always like, ask me if I was like cheating on him you. Have until you does. He know about it. We've. Always done live detective videos like back in 2015. When I first joined we've, done a few since then with, like try guys and stuff here they want to share their story we can always, learn from other, people on how their relationships. When Megan, was free and I grabbed her to help on the shoot today I'm scared I'm a little scared too I may. Seem innocent like. A cat without the, claws. You, may think I'm super, sweet but like line I'm gonna. Take. You by surprise like. Stranger. In the night, ready. On that here, I come, by, the end hopefully. We can all learn a thing or two of things not to do in a relationship. Strap. Up we're gonna jump into it how long have you been in your relationship, two. And a half years. Yeah. How, many breakups, have you had five. See, I've never had a breakup, Wow yeah, my, boyfriend and I have been together for 10 years right. We like almost. Had, a thing because I was doing long-distance for, like six months and that was really hard so I'm really, curious, about, other people's I, think there's a lot of valuable things to learn people, say that people break up for like money sex. And kids. Like having children causes, a lot of issues what, were some of the reasons, one. Of them I moved to Montana long, distance one of them it was just an unhealthy relationship, and. We both didn't like each other very much, okay, that's important one of them was I just know that you're not the one so, why waste both of our time you had instinctual, reasons, I want to know that's why I wanted to have them talk about under, a scrutiny, of a professional, lie-detector. Guy John he scares me have you seen him yeah he, seems very business. It's not a toy God hates liars and, I hate liars the type of Stern dad that I never had if you have nothing to hide and tell the truth. Which. Way is the secret front door do you want to introduce yourself, my name's Matt LeGrande I dated. Anthony, the samito for six long months you, seemed upset, oh no, no I'm good we had like a very tumultuous. Relationship. I. Want, to know all about that is, this your family yeah. Laurie's my family looks insane I kind of have a weird backstory like my family, are missionaries, in Indonesia, like that's where I was born and raised and that's why we look like a cult what does that mean my parents are like born-again. Evangelical, Christians. Why did they choose Indonesia, Indonesia, has the largest, number of UPG, which is unreached, people group people, who have not heard the gospel, who need to be saved how.
Long Was, your life spent their first 17, years of my life whoa tell. Me some happiest. Moments, in memories. She. Bought me that plan it was probably like this big when he got it for me oh wow and now much unlike our relationship. It has blossom, we, almost got tattoos, together what would you have done we were gonna get lying right, here yeah wow this is really strange, I hope these things still my place he would like call each other lion-o. And then we found this and, I was like the big lion because, I have a hairy back okay, I would call lion who clean lie. Anthony. Likes cooking he would come over a lot when he would be like super drunk, like after comedy, shows and then he would just like make stuff in my kitchen and make like a huge mess cute, for like a few months and then it was horrific. When, you break up you're like Jesus Christ why did I let this guy come over to my house drunk and make ramen. Tommy's, the beginning. We. Met a Bigfoot, lodge you, have comedy shows there I was booked on the show that night bought me a drink right after my set and introduced himself and, we like hit it off they have a little patio area and, we talked there probably until, clothes we made out on the patio that night very stereotypical. Gay. Ways we, almost like hooked up in the back home, but they were like so many people there two weeks later we were in Tijuana, together, well you guys went to TJ two weeks after that's a big vacation, yeah we're just like all in are you guys exclusive. During that time there was no question about, whether or not we were open we're monogamous we're, not seeing other people yeah. We've. Been dating for like five months or so I was going home for Thanksgiving and he had like told me he loved me and I didn't, say, it back and it kind of freaked me out he really wanted, like commitment. Had you said I loved you before has, anyone said it to you before I had said it to a guy that, I was seeing before him, I'd be like I love you and he would be like I have, a lot of love for you it was always, such. A gut. Punch her and it was really frustrating for me I was just like a no Limbo's on the whole time how old was he ten years older than me do you like older, guys oh god yeah, yeah. What is it about older, guys I feel like I'm getting interviewed, for like a porno. Think. What is it about ol Damon because I have like a weird life experience, it kind of forced me to grow up quicker. I was having a really good time with Anthony but I question, what I'm having a really good time it's hard for me to just do that I don't want to like put too much pressure on the Christian anything but there is sort of the sense that like you are supposed to be a martyr while you're on earth so like if you're enjoying your time like you should be questioning why, you're having fun I remember feeling really guilty for not being able to commit, am I just not able to accept, someone who loves me what were some of the biggest issues that you guys had. He. Was drunk so, often. Three or four nights a week one time I remember he like threw up out of my what, do you think he drinks so much I think it was probably because he was just new to LA trying, to fit in he's like a short, latino. Gay, comedian. One of a kind and the scene there's got to be factors. That I understand, from that either again like a tall white guy and I blend in even though I like I have a weird background was there ever a competition, element. With you guys since you guys were doing the same profession, that is like a huge reason why I wanted to have a show The Improv II didn't let me have a show and then he started.
Having A show there when you felt jealous did, you keep it mostly internally. Or would you guys fight about it there was like tension, and I want to know how to bring it up so much build-up of like passive-aggressive. Stuff I resented, him getting, things, that I wanted, and then like definitely, when he said I love you I kind of like held that over him and was like you. Might get that show but I'm not gonna tell you I love you, a. Part. Of me in ways didn't want him to be happy, because I wasn't, happy about where I was in my life, we. Almost like hooked up in the bra have. You hooked up in bathrooms, before. A. I. Did, in an airport, one time, and it, was while, we were dating after. I like knew that we were gonna break it was a huge thing when we were dating he would always like, ask me if I was like cheating on him and like Sodra, man why was he afraid, alakazam. When. Did you tell him that you did it with the guy at the airport I don't know if I did talk to him about that you. Have until you does. He know about it but also I like was, kind of a denial myself. About it so I went home for Thanksgiving, after he told me loved me and I did not tell him that I loved him it was literally flying to, my parents, at a layover in Chicago. And, there was this like cute guy who was sitting next to me on the plane and then like when we were in the airport I went to the bathroom and we were both watching her hands like he made eyes at me and. Then he like went into a stall, and then I followed him in and he just left the door open, yeah like unlocks it was like so sketchy, if. That, happened, and then I went to the terminal that I was on slept. For three hours and it kind of just felt like a dream or something next week we broke up when I came back you have asked me if I like cheated on him and what, was going on I knew that I was gonna break up with him it I like kind of justified, it like they can't even count I don't even know that person's, name I've never seen them yeah yeah I know, where they were going those, things whether or not we like admit them to ourselves like they affect you so consciously, he could obviously sense that I was distancing, myself okay. Whose. Fault, was it for, the break-up. The. Actual, breakup, like moment, I mean he was over here literally making a mess in my kitchen, and I was like I'm not gonna clean, this up it was like so dramatic, I was like breaking, up a few and he's like fine we'll have fun cleaning this up and then he like threw the pot everything like, ran out so I think that one was on him I think I was kind of the one who initiated because I was being like kind of withholding almost. Like self-sabotage, on my part I have like a hat urn of being, with guys who I feel. Like I need to fix and do you fix them no. Okay but. I. Think it's this like Savior complex being, a missionary for 20 years, oh you're trying to save people, I feel like that's the whole thing that's what you grew up doing I need to save Michael program, to do that Wow, why, don't I focus on saving, myself it's, even interesting, like processing. It with you because at first like I was making it all about him and how like he like drink too much even talking. With you about how a lot of it was just my own personal issues. Was, not ready to be happy. Here's what I want you to do write down ten yes-or-no, questions, are you guys allowed to be like explicit. I can bleep it up so we just wrapped up with Matt I was so happy that he was just really open about their relationship their past and where they are now. There's, always another side to a relationship. I am gonna go talk to Anthony so I'm getting some guests and I just got a text from Anthony, saying his roommate, isn't out yeah when he was getting mad he couldn't ever have any guys over Anthony is an adult he should be able to have people who print his plays I'm, a little, scared of his roommate now. You. Seemed a little anxious I think we're good I'm relaxed now when I first, moved in here there was a condition that I couldn't, have people sleep, here it's like in Dilys he, used to have a tenant it was hooking up a lot I'm just burying his, baggage I'm, like talking solo. Okay. Let's talk how your relationship with met I just thought he was really funny he's just striking in person a gorgeous man you, know I was just like wow hit, it off right away he's just very loving that's the person he is to, like his friend but when it comes to intimacy that's where he became kind of this show. When. Did you know you, loved him we were in bed and I was just like I love you like. And. Then and then and then like, he just hugged me it was kind of an accident how long into the relationship, one or two months later on I think Torres and I said you know the average time, couples. Say love you is three months yeah and then he was just like oh really in, that it, seemed like he was like running away like we'd have like a moment where it was appropriate to, say it he would turn it into a funny moment or, let, me get on my phone and let me call someone and.
He Wouldn't let that moment happen how did that feel like I was chasing my, tail of Kamath yeah. I almost, suggested. A couples, therapy, to figure that out is it too early for that. He's, from such a religious, background he's, still kind of fighting this internal battle what's the internal battle you should be able to believe in God even if he has, like these Jesus, things he has an altar in his house like I'm Mexican and, he has an altar I mean. Okay, you know and that always might be something, a little bit there that's kind of a tug of war, you. Know like he just came out. Tell. Me about your dating history oh I've. Been through the wringer with. Love when I was 21, I got with an older guy how, old he was like 36, it was really toxic he was drinking a lot he would like hide vodka, in the house and I would like find it and I was 21, so I would drink it. That. Lasted like seven. Months wait why was he hiding it I didn't know that he was like wake, up and drink alcohol okay. Yeah. He. Would like get the shakes in the morning if he didn't have a drink I dated another guy years, later and, he. Ended up cheating on me Wow, so, I was cheated on before he just bucket out of your mind I think so yeah, the guy was a jerk and then after that I really didn't date I was just focusing, on comedy, I was like comedies my boyfriend, then I moved to LA I met Matt and his gag comedian, friends. If. He had said I love you back did, you see future, with him I think there, could have been the holidays, were coming and, he was like I need a fresh start, that's, what he said I don't know how, come to people your are talking about this he mentioned like during the relationship like you drink often was, that a issue what, was the deal with that he would drink too I came at you drink until there. Was like a couple of times I just forgot how much I drank before, I went to another show and then I drink more and, that was just like not really drunk I, was like accusing, him of cheating on, me when I got drunk why, were you thinking he was cheating on you like I would tell him I'm gonna be at this show he would go to a different show why don't you come to the show that I'm on little, things that raised a flag for, me and I guess he wasn't cheating, on me when you hold the phone away from someone. For a good 30 minutes what, someone's texting you. I'm. Happening, maybe he was just texting someone. In the center it was a private conversation with, his mom stuff like that, that I remember, um. Yeah. Sometimes. I'd be like oh he just needs some space okay that's fine but a lot of times I would have that like panic, I care what's, happening does he not want to spend time with me how far into the relationship, did you start feeling that three. Or four months, in. If. He leaves the room his laptop saw, and I like look, at that third row, did you ever do that. No, I mean he, doesn't know that mound. Think so yeah there's, a button that just tells you what you've done what you've been doing, you know and it's right there but did you ever find anything. No Travelocity. Or whatever I don't. Understand, what, pushed me to believe this, I would tell him like it's just my it's, just my baggage that I'm carrying my fear of like losing him, what's that baggage about people in my life that have left like my dad passed, away when I was like 10 years old. Brother moved, to Mexico, and he's kind of stuck there just thinking, that I'm getting older trying to slow my roll find somebody to like build the life we're reaching 30, which is like 70. And gay years as, they say over 30 over the hill no, we're, gonna be old I, know my, back is already hurting gays age older, we have more baggage so. What were the biggest issues in the relationship. Lack. Of trust. From, me what, are things you're curious about if he, did, cheat on me I'm curious to know if you did enjoy hanging out with me that shows why, do you have doubts about that because we weren't like always affectionate. I am curious if, he. Did, love me and, if he was just not, able to say it. That. We have John here I'm a polygraph, examiner. I've tested about 10,000. People over the last 30-plus years, we get the most accuracy. By making sure they answer yes or no with their mouth only no head movements, or any body movements, but gloves I'm. Buckled, all right I'm gonna wire you up arms up this will let us know if the question, take your breath away or if you purposely, hold your breath either ones okay very nervous ready. Yes. Yeah does your mom still hate me. Yes. Kru. She. Never really liked Matt even, though it, was great she was like this is not a man, from my boy why do you think so I don't know but maybe she just knew that it wasn't meant to be I think she was just jealous of me, did.
You Like having, sex with me oh yeah. Yeah. Sex. Was good did, you ever had doubts no but like I don't know people, liable, fake it yeah or you like pretend, like you're into something to make the other partner happy because you don't know if you'll reject it or something, and we were dating did, you actually think I was funny. Yes. Crew. I. Think. You're funny okay. Cool I think everybody too I always tell that when we were dating I was. Always topping, but I wanted, to bottom and I. Was kind of nervous, to ask you if I asked you to top me would you have taught me. Yes. That's. True I. Was. Expecting to be like I'd rather use a strap-on. I. Think. I would have started there. Made. Me feel so embarrassed to ask that it's like vulnerable to, ask for, like things that you want sexually, cuz if you get rejected it feels so personal, you could have trusted me in bed more I asked, you for what I needed, watermelon. Those are safe word. You. Got. A show, at The Improv when we were dating and I also wanted to get a show there and I cut in, would. You have been upset if I got a show and you didn't. Know. True. Wow. Oh yeah, I, would. Have been happy for any type of success that you got it doesn't mean that you, took it away from me it, means that, you. Know, there's. Other. Chances, for me if, I don't get it it's. A good way of looking at that yeah I think because, I was so new at the time I was really antsy, and like jealous. About opportunities, I want success for all my friends I think that includes you did. You ever. Cheat, on me during the relationship, No. Crew. Whoa. That, was intense. I, didn't. Think he didn't know who, would ever want to be with you shut. Your mouth ha ha I. Couldn't. I tried I. Tried. So, hard to, cheat on you do, you think it's, Matt's. Fault, that you guys broke up no. True. Well. It's kind of nice, it's, my fault, why, I. Was. Just too much I was, too needy and, I was too productive I think jealous. Ready. Tell. Me nervous did, you like touring, with me yes. True. Oh. Oh yeah, it's so fun I still wanna go back to Arizona with you let's do it without your mom means. You might like you know I'm, not banging her my hand yeah were. You using me for your comedy career no. True. Oh, did. You enjoy sex, with me yes. True. Oh I. Enjoyed. Sex with you to know that we had good sex. Did. You like my cooking, yes. That. Hit the top of the computer oh you. Really did oh, he. Did it, okay. I feel like. You're. Not good at cooking I. Think. I'm a good god I, honestly. Thought that I did well, at the time but I feel like if you're dating someone you're just gonna eat what they put in rather what you do you regret dating, me. No. True. Oh oh. No I especially, in retrospect, I mean it was a lot of fun kind, of forced me to really. Dive into comedy because your success with it did. You ever cheat on me with another. Guy or. Guys. For. That matter. Yes. True. But. Though. It. Was only one time wait, hold on how do you feel. I'm. Not surprised. But. It is. Overwhelming. To hear. It. Was only one time so it was guy okay. And. It. Was at an airport, what. It was flying over Thanksgiving. Okay. And we, didn't have. Intercourse. Okay. You. Did it pretty. Much I got off the plane and, then we went to the bathroom and then like we went to wash our hands and we like made eyes at each other and. Then I went it and then he went into a bathroom stall and I followed him in there and, then he went, down on me, Wow and, then. And. Then I went to sleep, and waited for my next plane and I kind of pretended like it didn't happen which, is a little sociopathic.
But. But. I don't really. Remember, what he looks like oh if. I actually feel so much better. It. Wasn't romantic but. I totally cheated on you, yeah. You did Wow. Yeah, isn't that so bad of me but that was towards the end right yeah, well we had just gotten really sunlight when I went home for Thanksgiving, and I. Like. Kind of knew that we weren't gonna be together and. I think I kind of made that decision in my mind because right when I got back we broke up so. In my mind I kind of was like whatever we're not even gonna, meet together. So. Why not get some. Dick. Yeah, I'm about you I mean I think it was a shitty thing that I did do. You feel bad yeah. I do. True. Oh. So. You want me to feel bad I do. It's. Not long ago but, whatever. Also, it feels crazy because that doesn't, it. Feels like something I would never imagined that I would ever do yeah I can't, believe I did that I have. One more question you never really said it and I said it to, you I said I love you did, you ever love, me yes. True. Makes. Me feel sad that, he couldn't just, say. It or. Let. The. Love grow but, I'm, glad that I heard it I definitely know that I did love you but I. Know. That when you say that out loud it changes. Things, it like brings it to another level, and I knew I wasn't ready to do that I'm glad, that we didn't just keep. Being somewhere, where it. Was gonna be worse, there is a tug, of war between, us. Did. You learn anything from all this I learned that even a year after a breakup, it's still, emotional. And visceral you still need closure, Matt would say something, nice the way he said oh it. Was good affirmation. For him that he like needed. But you enjoyed this right that was my. Takeaway if. That therapy, is good for everyone, at any time in life in our conversation. With Matt earlier, just, sitting there on the couch in the span of like 30 minutes he had some revelations, it reinforced. My belief that once you establish, that you're, completely, honest it's okay, to have, issues, as long as you trust the other person if you don't trust your partner, the rest of it has nothing to stand on I don't regret doing this me and Matt are such good friends I couldn't imagine him, like not in my life he's such, a great person he's, the person that I fell. In love with a cool that I got to let you know that I did like, love, you and have those strong feelings for you time that's, all good we've never really like hashed, things, out and, then I have a post. Conversation. Or anything like that comment below I want to hear your thoughts who, do you think was right who do you relate to is it anyone's fault or were they just not meant to be what you learned that you could apply to your own relationship, and let us know if you want us to do more of these see, you later. Feels. Like, I'm innocent.