Do I Want Kids?

Do I Want Kids?

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Okay. What is it Finch. Avenue. No. Do. You have any idea. Face, yeah. I'll come again early the mosaic. Urination. Victoria. Street line, could it be that this, one but. I don't. Know. Are. We gonna get there it's not that. Mississauga. Hello. Guys so. Today, we're going to visit one. Of Daisy's. Friends, this. Is with us hello, Daisy, hey how. Are you everybody made. Up a large sevilla, room. And. We, decided to take you with us so, enjoy the ride. I. Don't. Know i think, you have two chances what. Did you feel the tail test on last, time yeah, i didn't, speed, up and up getting, on the highway and, the instructor, woman was free. Yeah. Okay. I'm. Excited. It saw me forget, about you. Teach. In. The. Oh. Ouchy. Ouchy ouchy. No, no. So. Do you like being a mother yes. I do like being a mother it's changed, me a lot it changed me like for better. So before, I wasn't, very much organized, person so now I have to be very much organized, because he has to wake up give him food and he's. Like a bit like ah it. Seems, like as if independent, routine. But for me it's every day is different so I knew that routine, you find something you enjoy like. The ready speech it looks at me he, touches. Me like. Breastfeeding. I think that was one of the best things that like for me I've experienced, some people don't like something mean mamas they don't, like. I like it I love, it I think I'm very blessed that I am still, I do breastfeeding and so. You wakes up in the middle of the night is like. He. Sleeps with me so he didn't separate my bed because. I don't know I really enjoyed, my time with him so I just I'm. Very happy with my son, it's. Like independent. Watching YouTube this. Will go on YouTube. These. Kids there's, something this, generation, you know every generation, then, we feel something, on this. Technology, for sure you cannot take away technology. From them you can't I don't think you could even. You do other kids also they will talk and you. Need to you need to give them I have, like not all the I, have like limits so if I give him in the morning and I gave him the afternoon like, because. I wanted to play to Alecto social, I than anything. Let's. Go, Justin. Baby. My. Thought was exact. So. When he was born his, eyes were, wide open I, was so surprised, and then, I took this picture one day old look, at this oh yeah. OMG. It. Teaches me a lot I feel like you he's the one teaching me like. So. Incredible, I know you, so emotional also, very much alert motion, it's work he feels a lot so I'm not I feel so responsible so, I will raise it I know cuz he's special I, knew I from, the beginning I knew I knew, unless you feel it. Just. Swing, back and forth. Yeah. Oh. My. God you're. Good you're good. Very. Stylish. For. This I. Wonder. What you were like as a kid like as a baby I was. Well. As a baby I was quite diffractive. Hyperactive. Hyperactive and. When. I grew up like, let's say around three, maybe from. Two on I was. Very shy, super. Shy I mean. Around four I stopped talking, because. And. I wanted to be trans in, a transparent, and you want people to notice me much, yeah. I. Think, I was very calm, these. Are for you. I. Don't. Think those are for me. Oh. My. God no I got nothing like. That yeah. Okay. Okay. He's. Working yeah. Any. Warning. Should. Keep me. Domination. Show. Them the, dunya are you throw a show. On. The show only a. Show. Daniel. Here though I shall. Send. Y'all. Always. Send. Y'all. Boots. Show. Them which, god. Sam. Oh. Okay. Yeah, so. We're back. After. Whole. Day spent, with this. Is friend and very. Adorable. 12. Months. 13 months old. Boy. What. Did it make you feel like to be around the boy did it make you want more kids did, it make you a no, no, -, yeah. Definitely. I. Was. Reminded, of when, I was a mom and I, was comparing, him because he reminded me so much of. Artemisia. She was so full of energy like, that she's, still full of energy by the way so. So. Yeah, even the way he was crawling, on the floor it's, exactly. The way she was. Because. She. Wasn't. Like. She was walking a little but she was faster, crawling. On the floor, yeah. And. What. About you what did, you feel being. Around the baby does. It did, it make you feel like you want babies, in the future actually no the opposite, oh yeah I made me feel like wow I really really. Really don't want kids in, the, foreseeable future maybe. A dog but. It just feels like such a huge. Responsibility. I mean it really feels like having kids it's having. Kids to me means like okay. I'm done with my life now, I can dedicate my, whole existence to this new being that I'm living on to this planet yeah and I feel like that's really the only way, to.

Be A really good mother is just, to really. Prioritize this, new creature. Yeah um, and making. Them feel welcomed. In this world and stuff like that but like I don't, have, the, personality. Or energy to be able to do that for me like I think a dog would be the perfect match it just comes with me everywhere you. Know I'm I'm still the center of my own world but I just. Have a little friend, to come along you know yeah I, feel. Like Mara is, a perfect. Mom she should really go she's so enjoying it oh yeah I was. I. Was. A little bit absent, because I was like I wasn't. I wouldn't define. Myself like a perfect, mom to be honest, how would you sorry, sorry just I was a little bit like absent, maybe like. My. Mom, maybe. I've never, had that example. Because my mom was also very, she. Was there but she wasn't there really she was. Concerned. About my. Health. And my. You. Know physical, well-being you. Know that but she wasn't really present, because she was always emotionally. Not present, uh, not. In a way. Like. She was. Always worried. About things. About raising, us in, the best way but she was worried, nervous. Seems to be seems, to have that very light energy, that she actually she's. Enjoying, it oh yeah she's in love you know if he's in love with that baby I don't think I was like that, and I regret it in a way because it's. I think that kids. Benefit. So much from. That. Kind of presence like 100, percent yes presence, but you couldn't send that anyway because you were working mother right yeah, I was working exactly, I was working I was tired and I was then. I started working. On also projects, other, than having my full-time job so it was crazy. Yeah, it was a tired. Absent. Mother, in a way I mean. I'm it sounds, very bad, it. It wasn't so bad okay, but, it was a reality, I mean there's no such thing as a perfect mother right yeah, we all, like. They hope every mother does their best yeah, you, know what they have from where they're at but yeah there's single mothers who need, to work yeah, you know or or like, you where the mother is the sole wage, earner yeah. Yeah. It's not always. The perfect circumstance, I'm sure you need your best yeah but I just know personally, for me like it's something that I don't. Know I feel like I'm very aware. Of, every. Little thing and how it would affect this. Other, being, yeah, and so. If I was supposed to be a mother I would I would. Literally have to dedicate my, whole existence to. Sharing it with this new being and for that for. That to happen I would have to first feel like okay I'm good, my life is done I'm, satisfied you, know what I mean yes like I would have to get to that point where I'm like completely. Satisfied, and done with everything, and so that all of my energy and focus can, be, about. Nurturing a new life yeah and, I'm not there, at all I don't know if I'll ever be there maybe not because I don't.

Know I'm a bit selfish I like. They're. Like the. Earthly pleasures, yeah. So. Yeah. Okay. See you guys next time bye.

2019-07-28 11:03

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bence her kadın anne olmak ister ,hayır desen bile içinde bir yerlerde o his vardırbence.Bende tıpkı senin gibiyim anne olmak beni korkutuyor,çok fazla sorumluluğu var,kendini ona adıyorsun resmen ama her konuştuğum insan keşke daha önce çocuk yapsaydım diyor çok geç kalmışım diyor sonuçta senin canından bir parça.Ama bu hayatta herkes istediğini yaşamalı ve bir de kaderde varsa olur gerçeği var :)))

Awsome

thank God.. mom sadie arrived.

Ne güzel söylenmiş Divane Aşık Gibi türküsü (: Pek tatlısınız hepiniz. Sevgiler.

Cok tesekkur ediyorum.

I have been watching the vlogs. I feel breaking engagement, not wanting a child, not committing to a serious/ close relationship - is because you are hesitant to take responsibility. You can't have the cake and eat it too.

beatyful

Annen ne kadar güzel bir insan

4:23 *got me dead*

Lady's I'm hoping to receive or at least read about you pending wedding. Kid you not. Lol...

Nice to see you two together ❤️

p. is look younger than her age..

Not everybody should be responsible for human reproduction. Some people just are naturally created for other purposes, devotion to art for example.

Your Friends Voice & song was So Beautiful.

No way! You're super cute!

Even i cannot understand the song very nice, i love to heard from my ears.

Great seeing you both, You are in my favorite place. Toronto. Love you both. Peace and blessings

Annenin arkadasi ne kadar guzel soyledi. Cok duygulandim

Annen cok iyi bir insan Sedef onu cok sevdim

I love hearing p talk about motherhood such honesty. Do you feel you’re more present in your daughters life now she s grown up?

Drop The Mask thanks for your answer. I was not really present in the first year of my daughters life as in mentally present and always wondered whether or not she would eventually suffer from it. Hopefully not. Anno Nuovo vita nuova cosi si dice!

Yakeudatolechu thank you for your question. Yes I feel like I have definitely grown up into being more present in general as a person. As a consequence I definitely feel more present with my daughter nowadays ❤️

No, we have enough hoomans and climate warming thank you

Exactly

LOL P is having the time of her life! Once a mother, always a mother...

Pleas change your glasses look like a alien

Exactly how I feel about motherhood. There's so much in life I'd like to explore and babies don't fit into that right now or even for the next 15-20 years. If or when I become a mother, I'd like to dedicate all of my time and energy into the baby and be a stay at mom for at least the first 5 years.

Roll it

oh love love you both

Love you guys, always happy to see videos from you. Can't believe how beautiful the grey in your hair is, I absolutely love it. Much live from Arizona.

P's mimics were incredible and very funny

Thank you so much

Are you two back in Canada?

LOVE....from indonesia...

@Anjali mishra interesting...most indonesian people is very nice and humble...

@dewi devi yes...and i love her alot...

@Anjali mishra oh ya...

@dewi devi my gf is from indonesia

@Karlina has halo

Hi dewi dewi

very beautiful

Thank you again for visiting us and witnessing a day of my mommy life. And you are so right when you say that raising kids takes a lot of sacrifice. And Paula you are a great mom. I love you both. Hope to see you soon. Metehan loves playing with you guys.

Wow, u r watching this with us too

@Mô Me thank you so much dear ❤

@Mô Me sending lots of love.

Hey merve...ur song was incredible... although i didnt understood it but it was soothing to my ears...love from india

Same, I really LOVED your song ! Thank you so much for sharing that with us. ❤️

@fae ser thank you so much.

You sing and play sooo beautifully! You have so much soul behind it. You have a true gift!

@iuoiuo oh thanks so much. I am so happy to hear this. ❤✌

Merve Sancak your voice was so beautiful! At first I thought it was from a CD - then I realized you made the music.

So happy to see you happy together. And the Turkish song are the best

What's the song about why Sadie's mom crying?

You Both Are So Cute...

Lmao. P was having a blast with the toys.. Funny to see that side of her. Loved it. Mom mode 100% lol... This was a fun vlog! Nothing wrong with not wanting kids at least you see if for what it is and you dont make yourself feel like "that's what you're supposed to do." I'm happy for you guys.

Title: do i want kids? Me : puppy please

Oh yes please

When Paola has more fun with the toys then the child

Speaks the truth

Shes so cute!!

Keşke türkçe alt yazı olsaydı :(

Koymuşlar. Ama bence ingilizce öğrenmen gereken bir dil. (:

Ayse Sahin aynen bende birsey anlamadim

Hani bu ikisi ayrilmislardi daha once cektigi videoda demediler mi? Biz ayrildik birbimizi sevmiyoriz falan

I love your mom!

Sadie you and I are so similar. We are the same age and I don't want kids. I also want to have them less when Im around them haha and I don't want them for the same reasons you stated

Good to see you again guys.. Love from india

Good to see you again guys love u ♥️

I love seeing Sadie's mother.

im in love with your mom

Sedef neden bilmiyorum ama videoların bana huzur veriyor.P ile çok yakışıyorsunuz.Umarim her daim mutlu olursunuz.

Lovely video of everyone Ps hair lovely.

Ayy bende sizi seviyorumm❤️❤️ annene bol selam ve opucuk turkeydenn❤️❤️

Annenin gerginken turkce konusmasi hahahhaha baslarim ingilizce der gibi

@Shir Yang hi there. Thank you so much. Yes it is a traditional Turkish song from Black sea region. I am glad you like it.

@Cammie&Kara fans the song is about being apart in different cities. there is a sentence in the song "be rain and i will be a cloud, so we will meet." it is a sad folk song.

Humans will never reach satisfaction. existence is always a mess and no one is a perfect parent. all kids grow up broken one way or another.

I thought they broke up

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@Cammie&Kara fans but here is a playlist of similar song https://youtu.be/Vz3R8tTD5rI

@Cammie&Kara fans sorry i don't know the name of the song

Aşko muyum neden birleşik :(

Aminn

4:23 P's face and when she says ''what's this'' lmfao :D

Var zaten

P’nin çocuklarla olan iletişimine hayran kaldım..

I love this video

Guyz where are you... Any vid update today? ♥

Turkcen de senin kadar guzel iyi ki sizi tanıdım

Bende turkum

Ya aklıma gelir dedim ama 0:10

She sang so well

Demi yaa :')

Daisy cok tatli bir insan! You guys are so lucky to have her!

@Merve Sancak maybe you should add more songs on your Youtube channel ?

Ayy yerim sizi ya annen arada bir türkçe konuşuyor falan çok hoş

Sedef canım ya çok videonu izledim İngilizcem için iyi oluyor ama geçici mutluluk içindesin sana daha çok enerji veren ilişkiler seçmelisin P sanki zorlama bir enerjiye sahip :(

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